Alright BBWchan. This may be like an alcoholic asking bar mates if beer is bad, but being as this is a site for BBW/ fat fetishists how do you relate this fetish and consumption of porn to your life? Is this a problem for you at all, sexually/ / romantically/ otherwise? Are there experiences or guidelines you want to share that have improved your relationship to this fetish?

I'll give my experience, bit of a ramble ahead. I don't think I have a 'problem' per se with this fetish but it'd probably be good to moderate things a bit. I've been watching porn regularly since I was a kid, probably 11/12, and it undoubtedly shaped my brain sexually in ways I'm not sure are wholly positive. I've got no problem dating a big girl, dating one now, and the sex is great. I usually masturbate most days I'm not banging, and usually watch BBW porn of some kind to get off. Over they years my tastes have progressed to bigger and bigger girls, and slowly more into feederism itself. This somewhat concerns me as its one thing in fantasy but another to NEED that irl. Although i've had no issues with ED with the current girl I'm dating, previous relationships/hookups with smaller girls have resulted in a mixed bag. If a girl is too skinny, sometimes I'm just almost asexual, or unable to maintain erection/arousal. But usually if they're properly fat I've got no problems.

But that has caused some embarrassment and shame. One time I remember having a great date with a girl (Who is now actually a close platonic friend so it all worked out really) who was cute and funny and had huge tits on a slim frame, but because she was slim when it came to having sex I couldn't perform even if societally she was like a 9 or 10.

Anyways, is there any real evidence for porn causing long term issues? Is daily consumption of BBW fetish porn bad? cause it kinda sounds bad, but actual science seems light on this topic. But the whole fellow Gen Z generation having unrestricted access to porn from pre teen age seems like it may lead to some consequences, and i wanna know if I'm living it.

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So many of these "caught being an FA" threads tend to have a negative or crinfe ending, but I don't think it should always tbh.

Honestly, while a major resolution of mine is to be more upfront with my preferences, I've mostly been very don't ask don't tell to begin with. I think there's only been one time I've been explicitly caught on something BBW related, and it was browsing Wooplus. A friend was looking over my shoulder when I got a notification, and when I gave him the "skinny" (ironic choice of words), he was like "dude, I'm so glad you told me. I think big girls are really hot too but I thought you guys would think I was a freak for it so I never brought it up". A third friend chimed in with similar sentiments and we had a reallt nice chat. Just a funny and surprisingly uplifting situation over all.

Anyone else have positive stories of being "found out"

Anyone else have similar stories with good endings like that?

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Not posting pictures so don’t ask, but wondering about other people’s experiences with this.

Met my girlfriend about 2 and a half years ago when she was 310 lbs. Her face was a little chubby at most, but compared to the rest of her body her face was slim for her size and only had a double chin from certain angles or when she was slouching laying down, so I genuinely thought that if she got bigger her face would stay relatively slim for her size since it already was.

Now she’s over 360 lbs at only 23, and holy fuck her face has gotten so fucking fat. Jawline completely engulfed in fat, completely smooth from her temple to the bottom of her double chin that now covers over half her neck from most angles, and her neck completely engulfed in her double chin and shoulder/chest fat when she lays down/slouches. She herself says it looks like her face is melting into her chest and it’s so fucking sexy. Crazy to think about how much fatter just her face could get when it gained this much in just 50 lbs. She went from definitely bigger than chubby but still traditionally cute to visibly super obese and people definitely perceive her differently. Literally slightly chubby face to over half her neck gone standing and 3/4ths the way to the “Breaking Benches” meme guy when she’s slouching. I don’t really care what other people think and honestly everyone’s reaction just makes it hotter to me.

She’s well aware of the change in perception too and it’s making her lean into degradation kink way more, you can tell things like seeing people she hasn’t seen in a while and them being visibly shocked turns her on, because even compared to a year ago or just a few months ago her face wasn’t *that* fat when compared to now. One of my friends recently privately asked me if I’m honestly happy with her because she used to be fat “but hot” and now she’s “honestly a lardass” and I said “Honestly yeah I am and I think she looks good” and he left it at that. Told her about it and she laughed and asked me to call her a lardass later when we were fucking.

Sometimes a part of me feels I fell deep into a fetish rabbit hole to think this is hot but I honestly can’t imagine getting off to anything else. Watching her “ruin” herself is so fucking sexy.

Anyone have similar stories?

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Not posting pictures so don’t ask, but wondering about other people’s experiences with this.

Met my girlfriend about 2 and a half years ago when she was 310 lbs. Her face was a little chubby at most, but compared to the rest of her body her face was slim for her size and only had a double chin from certain angles or when she was slouching laying down, so I genuinely thought that if she got bigger her face would stay relatively slim for her size since it already was.

Now she’s over 360 lbs at only 23, and holy fuck her face has gotten so fucking fat. Jawline completely engulfed in fat, completely smooth from her temple to the bottom of her double chin that now covers over half her neck from most angles, and her neck completely engulfed in her double chin and shoulder/chest fat when she lays down/slouches. She herself says it looks like her face is melting into her chest and it’s so fucking sexy. Crazy to think about how much fatter just her face could get when it gained this much in just 50 lbs. She went from definitely bigger than chubby but still traditionally cute to visibly super obese and people definitely perceive her differently. Literally slightly chubby face to over half her neck gone standing and 3/4ths the way to the “Breaking Benches” meme guy when she’s slouching. I don’t really care what other people think and honestly everyone’s reaction just makes it hotter to me.

She’s well aware of the change in perception too and it’s making her lean into degradation kink way more, you can tell things like seeing people she hasn’t seen in a while and them being visibly shocked turns her on, because even compared to a year ago or just a few months ago her face wasn’t *that* fat when compared to now. One of my friends recently privately asked me if I’m honestly happy with her because she used to be fat “but hot” and now she’s “honestly a lardass” and I said “Honestly yeah I am and I think she looks good” and he left it at that. Told her about it and she laughed and asked me to call her a lardass later when we were fucking.

Sometimes a part of me feels I fell deep into a fetish rabbit hole to think this is hot but I honestly can’t imagine getting off to anything else. Watching her “ruin” herself is so fucking sexy.

Anyone have similar stories?

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What's your favourite/funniest response to "But, she's fat"?

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Post images of whoever you discovered this year. New model just starting in 2023 or someone a little older but you discovered in 2023
To start, here's Carlys Ssbbw from curvage

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I'm curious how many of you have intentionally gained weight and what your experiences with it were like.

How much did you gain and how long did it take? Are you still gaining? How did it feel, and how did it impact your life?

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Where do you land? 0 being exclusive attraction to thin girls (lol), 6 being exclusive attraction to BBWs.

Personally, I'm like a 4.5 to a 5. While I can and have been attracted to muscular girls and even one petite girl (it's all about vibes, y'know), more often than not if she ain't at least 15 lbs overweight, my dick won't budge an inch.

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Does anyone else here struggle with Body Dysmorphia? I can't help but find it very ironic that I, a trim guy who loves big women, becomes distressed at the very thought of putting on even a gram of fat, but it has been a serious impediment in building relationships, especially when it makes a girl insecure about her amazing body because of my unstable relation with my own.

Any tips on minimizing these feelings, if you've had the experience?

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