I like bbw women and this has always made me uncomfortable because, in general, a fat body is associated with bad health and things like that.
It is true? It is not true? I don't know, but the fact is that mine is still a sexualization of a possible discomfort/problem towards a third person.
At least I've always seen it that way.

Now:

I know that in the magical world of the internet there is an activist who deals with fatphobia, non-conforming bodies, etc. (she is an Italian activist) It but my intention was to contact her via her ig to expose this "problem" to her and get her opinion of her.
Am I doing well? Am I doing wrong? Do I have to mind my own business? I don't know, this is why I ask for advice from you Anonymous people who can do everything and know everything.
Also because we often talk about the devaluation of a fat body, but never about its sexualization and I'm curious to know the opinion of a party involved.


Also, since MAYBE I will contact her, what do you want me to ask her?
And sorry for my broken english

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stufferdb comments are a gem, post yr favs. i'll go first with one i just found.

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I cannot tolerate obesity for myself yet yearn for it to affect my gf

Why must I be like this?

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[Read this on sevral sites and agree.]

So that the Public can understand our community.
It not really a fetish. This is a Biological Instinct, with caring and nurturing aspects.

Eating and Storing Nutrients are Core Biological Instincts. There are many animals that display Feeding Behaviors.

Humans are Mammals.
People and animals that dwell in Chilly environments with frequent wet and blizzard conditions, Have thicker bodies.

Mammals:
Bears, Sea Lions, Marmots, Hippos, Elephants, porcupine, Seals, Otter, Walrus, Species.

Bee, ants, and Termite Queens. [ fed to large size.]

Honeypot ant species [ Larders]

For women bodies prepare for multiple Pregnancies and years of breast feeding. Their bodies can try to retain adipose tissue for next pregnancy.

The Brain uses a constant large amount of Calories, so having these adipose reserves is important.

There is also Buoyancy, for long distance swimming. [ Chilly rivers, ponds, lakes.]

It can be established that this is Biological Nurturing Instinct. It can be practiced as safe and consensual.

List animals with feeding behaviors.

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I think it's no secret at this point that many 'old guard' models are backing out of the scene as they, well... get older. Not that we didn't see it coming, but it's pretty glaringly obvious that it's leaving a vacuum. Roxxie, Jae, Beccabae, Adeline, etc. are all in stages of either full or partial retirement and were once *major* contributors to the establishment of what this fetish really is - at least when this was more niche than it already was, we'll say pre-Feabie, around the Tumblr-era. I won't make a eulogy of it, but I'm curious what you guys think the future of content is going to be going forward, because the BigCuties ship has sailed - that is, no more monolithic models that draw immense amounts of attraction.

Does anyone relatively newer even come close the popularity the older models have/had? Lady Sublime went from a pretty standard camwhore and ballooned into a fully-fledged fat fetish content creator AND seems content to actively gain - and it's good stuff. That said, I don't think she'll even come close to the popularity Roxxie enjoyed at her (pretty recent) peak. Do we need to start thinking differently about what constitutes 'good' content and how to find it?

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S31 is run by a greedy exploitative prick, everyone knows this. He has no idea how to run a successful or even functional site, and has now prevented us from even watching previews. Plus a lot of the content is apparently missing / inaccessible. (Sidenote: is anyone able to rip some recent content?)

Curvage is helmed by a power tripping loser who tries his best to conceal the fact, but it's become patently obvious, and there's evidence of where he's treated some models like shit.

Feabie is run by pearl clutching hypocrites who ban people over the slightest transgressions whilst fostering a completely toxic environment full of misbegotten political ranting, skinny shaming, creepy maladjusted weirdos, harassment, deception and greed. If you try to argue your case they just IP ban you.

The guy who ran SDB seemed cool back when I was on the REPORT MY POST but the site is broken half the time and it just features rehashed content anyway.

Reddit is reddit

What else is there? Fantasy Feeder? Never really spent much time there but a lot of content seems paywalled now.

There are enough money grubbing models and disrespectful guys as it is and it sucks how the experience is hindered further by some power hungry losers in charge of these sites

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I felt this desire when I realized that Clover exists for 4C, but the app does not accept our domain.

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I am at the "women who weigh less than 350lb do literally nothing for me" point, and with typical swipe-based dating apps like Tinder/Bumble/Hinge, I can be sitting there for an hour or more before I see a girl I'd even look twice at

Are there any dating sites/apps/etc. that actually have a (useful) weight filter, or a way to select for fat girls?

>normie dating apps don't have weight filters/categories at all. i understand WHY this is, still a shame
>no one uses non-normie dating apps, they're ghost towns :(
>feabie only has girls who are "in the community" and not just normal girls who happen to be obese (and this isn't even the 50th biggest problem with feabie)
>my age cohort (older zoomers & younger millennials) don't use web-based dating networks like POF or OKC or whatever
>every "plus-size/bbw" dating app is made from a template and has no specialty features. i've downloaded "bbw dating apps" that don't have weight sorting at ALL

If there's some app/network that just isn't occurring to me, do tell. otherwise I guess bitch & moan with me for fun

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Can anyone at least confirm that the media is accessible because I heard a lot of videos were missing. Also is it really true they’re in like 480p now?

And has anyone paid with Amazon gift card? I can’t get disposable credit cards where I live and I don’t really want it showing up on my bank statement even if it’s ambiguous

Sidenote It feels like there are hardly any thinner women with chubby bellies anymore… it used to be the most common body type in the feedism scene. Of the hundred models on curvage there’s like 1 or 2 with this body type… what happened?

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Maddy Bull is amazing. Her body type is literally perfect, she's not intentionally gaining but has gotten NOTICABLY bigger over the years. And to top it all off she seems super nice and friendly online. We are lucky to have her.

On that note; any recommendations for anyone that looks even close to her?

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