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I'm struggling to see this kink as anything other than a curse
TheAlchemist
Tue 12 Mar 2024 15:07:47
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No.46002 Original
Sorry for the negativity but man it's fucked up.
Being into curvy/chubby women is hard enough where i live in a city full of fit women with a definite fat shaming culture (and being fit looking myself has actually made this harder)
But the focus on bellies is enough to break most women's brains. I was once discussing kinks with a girl I was seeing and she disclosed that she had a rape fetish so I thought I would be open about finding bellies sexy and she flipped out.
It's something that the body positivity movement has done jack shit for, because women seem more ashamed than ever. My biggest turn on is their biggest insecurity.
I haven't ever mentioned the stuffing / weight gain shit to anyone and probably never will.
I've also passed up opportunities to be with thinner women because I wasn't very sexually attracted to them and it feels like I'm looking for a unicorn.
And I feel bad because I want my partner to be healthy and I know that whatever way you want to spin it this shit just isn't healthy.
Anyway I've tried many times to get rid of it and it ain't happening so the best I can do is just find a lady with a naturally chubby belly and do without the stuffing and weight gain shit.
I thought about bringing it up with a therapist but I don't really see how that could help.
I'm just venting here but if you have any advice or anything you want to add feel free
Being into curvy/chubby women is hard enough where i live in a city full of fit women with a definite fat shaming culture (and being fit looking myself has actually made this harder)
But the focus on bellies is enough to break most women's brains. I was once discussing kinks with a girl I was seeing and she disclosed that she had a rape fetish so I thought I would be open about finding bellies sexy and she flipped out.
It's something that the body positivity movement has done jack shit for, because women seem more ashamed than ever. My biggest turn on is their biggest insecurity.
I haven't ever mentioned the stuffing / weight gain shit to anyone and probably never will.
I've also passed up opportunities to be with thinner women because I wasn't very sexually attracted to them and it feels like I'm looking for a unicorn.
And I feel bad because I want my partner to be healthy and I know that whatever way you want to spin it this shit just isn't healthy.
Anyway I've tried many times to get rid of it and it ain't happening so the best I can do is just find a lady with a naturally chubby belly and do without the stuffing and weight gain shit.
I thought about bringing it up with a therapist but I don't really see how that could help.
I'm just venting here but if you have any advice or anything you want to add feel free