Howdy fellow degenerates.
Wanted to get your thoughts as I re-enter the dating pool; following the end of a decade plus relationship.
During the course of my time with my bbw ex, I definitely came to terms with my preference for fatter women. (To the extents where she ended up teetering into ssbbw terrain, and I would say I probably enter into "feeder" realms too.)
Mind you, both prior to that relationship; and in a couple of the one-off engagements I've had since, I also was with "regular" size women.
I say this, because I'm still far from an old man, and I know I'm more suited for monogamy than casual hookups.
That said, aside from my issues; which I took time to work on, part of what affected things with my ex was her love/hate relationship with her weight, which impacted her self-esteem and libido, plus some semi and unrelated mental health issues.
What's your advice/takes on the prospects of finding (and having a fulfilling relationship with) a fatter woman; ideally one who'd enjoy getting further plumped up as time went on?
Given I'm not looking to repeat the mistakes of the past, how to I find a relationship where the inevitable drama life throws at all of us doesn't manifest in my partner resenting herself, her body, and me? (I don't believe I'm a callous, unkind, or inconsiderate)
Or should I put some degree of sexual fulfillment to the side in the hopes that a "smaller" woman might not present the same problems? (I'm not naive enough to think anyone is without baggage or gets out of life unscathed)
Any constructive replies would be greatly appreciated.
