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While watching videos describing BDSM, something occurred in my mind. I wonder if one could say that feedism is a subset of BDSM and if there are similarities between the two fetishes. I am not saying they're 100% the same, there are differences. I was just saying they're similar in that we wish for our feedees to be submissive as they are fed a huge amount of food, that they let their feeder control their weight and diet, though there can be scenarios of a demanding feedee bossing around their feeder. I also see a difference in how people in this community would want a fat woman to act. Some want her broken and demure, more compliant to their partner's desires to feed her and fatten her up. Others desire a partner who is outgoing, strong and embraces her fat. They could also appreciate strong fat girls which brings to my mind the attraction to the dominatrix in BDSM. There are also elements of humiliation with this fetish as the thought of a fat person being humiliated/embarrassed over their weight or being teased for their weight being considered sexy. I also see people who wish to practice feedism in a safe, sane and consensual manner. That they discuss what diets to give their love interests so they can be fat/fit. I also see between the two those who practice their kink in their day to day lives and those that practice it as a sometimes thing. Whenever they do documentaries about this feedism, it seems that all feeders wish to fatten up their love interests to a higher weight or to immobility and that they are a constantly feeding them junk food. There are never feeders who wish to have their love interest fat/fit or to practice junk food feeding sessions sometimes. This is similar to BDSM practitioners who practice leash, pet play or being caged in their day to day lives and having being bossed around by their partner. The control of a feedee's diet is another similarity as the feeder. The other parallel between feedism and BDSM is the difference between what one fantasizes about and what they do in the real world. Like loads of people in this community fantasize about fattening up their partner to immobility, but how many of us would actually do that in the real world? I see feedism as rebellion against a culture that teaches us that thin is in and to avoid fatness. That we see a woman embracing her fatness and eating a lot and rebelling against cultural beauty standards to be sexy. Though we would also wish for her to be under our control as we wish to fatten her up and control her diet and meet our standards of beauty, though the image of her being confident in her body could also be sexy. It's just a mix of control and freedom I would say. I would like to hear other similarities/differences between BDSM and Feedism.