"HOW DO YOU GAIN HEALTHILY???"
I'm sure you guys have heard this song and dance before. For instance, I personally ended up in a relationship with someone who loves to eat and loves food but is terrified of health risks regarding this idiot fetish. Obviously it's easy to say "break up and find someone new" or "you never loved them anyway if you need them to involve your fetish" or whatever ridiculous statement, but a lot of these things are always more nuanced. (For example, what if people just want to try it out? What if the relationship is extremely stable but someone just wants the extra oomph? What if sexual desires are fine occasionally but would be nice to bump up if indulge in the fetish? etc etc) Just look at tons of people's disappointments and difficulties finding those rare ones that already inherently enjoy being fat and even rarer for those willing to go completely all the way with feeding.
No, I just want to approach the topic thoroughly and hopefully just settle as much collective knowledge on this as much as possible once and for all. Mostly because on random threads here and there, I continuously see contradictory statements about it.
First of all, obviously it's not INHERENTLY healthy compared to just not doing it. I believe everybody knows this at a baseline. However, there are constant examples or methods of not acknowledging it as the "end of health" that a lot of people claim it to be at the same time. For example, many elderly people within their 70s/80s/etc that are significantly obese, and yet are still as old as they are seem to be surprisingly common. Even some that continuously engage in worse habits, such as smoking or etc, live on just fine while also being fairly obese, so it seems being fat isn't inherently a death sentence.
So then, in regards to the statements I've seen about it, there are a few things that should be clarified at a baseline: "What causes diabetes" as well as "What types of food cause body issues" etc. From what I've heard, things like how glucose works should be clarified in regards to how sugar actually affects insulin, or whether you can stuff someone with nothing but healthy foods and still see issues (I recall seeing a completely vegetarian bbw somewhere on twitter, so I know you can at least still be fat despite the food you eat? So it doesn't have to be all fried chicken and sugary desset products). Another thing to acknowledge is whether it would affect people who have other issues, like PCOS or a family history of diabetes. Especially with the latter, since you don't even have to be fat to get diabetes.
I feel like at least acknowledging enough about this could help a lot of anons really settle into a decent lifestyle with any potential partner. As much as it's fun to indulge in the fantasy, and how a few people out there are willing to make that fantasy a reality, I doubt most are willing to really deal with anything completely unrealistic or the consequences of that. (Especially regarding the hygenic aspects of it) I'm unsure if people fully feel similarly, but if there's a noticable stomach and plumpness to my partner, that would be enough to satisfy me, as anything further either depends on my mood or only really looks good in art. Also, unsure the exact science behind how fetishes work in general but it could help clear up a few things for the anons significantly more retarded in figuring this out (like myself). For instance, I haven't really understood or decided if this fetish is the only one I care about sexually, or if it's just porn addiction, or what. I've had this fetish for 10+ years and it still goes strong and it's still my main interest despite trying to dip into other things. Feels like everything else, even typical sex appeal is just a "novel" fetish that fades in and out, while BBWs feel like my default normal.
Let's settle this already.
