So I often posture about not really giving a fuck about what people think, right? For the most part, I think this rings true, but I'm not exactly "out and proud" about loving BBWs with all my friends, not exactly because I think they'll turn on me or anything; I know it's an irrational fear, I'm just a paranoid person in general, and think that any piece of information I share can be used against me, so I'm careful with how I articulate things.
Well, anyways tonight I had some buddies over for talking and drinks, and for whatever reason the conversation went into ideal women. I answered (mostly) honestly that I liked women of all shapes and sizes, thinner and thicker with a preference for the latter (which is partially true, even if 9/10 times I'll take the chubbier chick any day), and my friends were all like "Dude, I love chubby girls" and "Skinny models don't do it for me"... Not saying I needed the validation, but it was kind've cool.
Obviously, they don't know the extent to which I've gotten off, but I frankly don't care.
I guess this is a sort've battlecry for hesitant FAs, especially Gen Z FAs who might be embarassed for whatever reason; you'll be surprised at how often people will be on your wavelength.