>>217928 Let me put it to you this way, if I had children it wouldn't be where I am now. I made a pact to my unborn children. This pact consisted of a simple premise, that in gratitude of God's gifts to me, my parents upbringing, and my perfect childhood. I would make sure that I wouldn't bring any children into this world unless that I could asure them a life of equal perfection if not better. I made thus pact with my unbirn children in my balls way too many years ago. I still hold steady in my fulfillment if that pact. I would love to start a family, but can't be in this place.