>>29933This is precisely the type of thing that gets in the way of progress: BBWs with dorky husbands. When I watch a porno and an ssbbw is getting hammered by an african american with a 13 inch cock a common reaction is I just feel like wtf another bbc again? And I may move on to something else or continue watching and there's no problem. But when I see how in real life ssbbws have dorky husbands it gives me a strange feeling in the pit of my stomach.
Life is stranger than fiction as they say, and these things can be not just expected but predicted. Still, something about it doesn't sit right with me.
I see it all the time in public or at the mall and when I see it I always think that either only dorky dudes are who want the big girls or that fat women love money so they marry dorky dudes. None of that is good optics because it makes me not want to be seen in public with a fat woman cause I fear people thinking I'm a dork! Cause you know they're never going to think I'm swimming in cash so there's only one other possibility.
Especially in this new century with social media everybody around me is consumed and obsessed with optics and I don't know what to do about it or how to escape it. I don't personally care, and I don't mind being seen with a epicly huge blimp of a woman especially if she's my wife! Come on. But I don't want people looking at me thinking I'm a dork with no money, or worse! It is they who obsess over optics not me. I love fat hoes! I prefer them. I don't want fat women bringing problems into my life though. It's all about optics.
It's society's fault, sure, but all these dorks publicly partnered with bbws aren't helping! These bbws have to start dating some normal guys or something! For real.
I really hope one day we can get to a point as a society where fat women are seen as normal people so we can freely date fat women without the fear of bad optics or people assuming you're dumb or a celibate or a dork just because you're with a fat woman? That don't even make sense but whatever.
If anything it's people obsessing over their own image and physique as well as the apperances of other people around them, these people are rotten to the core always judging a book by its cover it just seems like most people now days are that way.