>>122742Im 28. I've had around 25 sexual partners, most of them between 250-350, with some over 400. I've rarely been single for more than a month or so. You've got to cast a wide net, ghost girls if you're getting nothing from them. Girls do this all the time, do not feel bad about doing it yourself.
WooPlus is the best for this, VIP is a few quid a month and you can message as many girls as you want and set age / distance restrictions. You're more likely to get a big girl who is confident / okay with being a big girl here.
Tinder is where you get some of the bigger girls who aren't as confident, that maybe dont show their full figure in their photo, but you can tell by the shoulders arms. The biggest women i've ever slept with have been from Tinder, but it's a bloody nightmare the rest of the time.
Bumble / Hinge is okay, met one of two partners on both but its designed more towards normies / young professionals.
Plenty of Fish is interesting, you can filter by body type like WooPlus but the actual interface and messaging / matching system is a nightmare.
Feabie is not very good for dating, There's somethign silly like a 20:1 ration of fat women to not-fat men on there, and unless you're speaking primarily to new users, you're just gonna have a rought time.
The reality is, you've gotta be a genuine human who's outgoing. Girls on feabie (of which i've hooked up with a few) are getting DOZENS of messages daily, and 90% of those messages come on really strong, like massive creeps, get extremely sexual very quickly, or dont leave them alone.
If you're interested in a girl? Drop her a message, something that shows you've looked at her profile, and dont mention her body at all. She will know because it's feabie that men on there will be attracted to them, it's a given, its the other stuff they care about. Spend time letting her feel comfortable, then take her out and let things develop in person, but do not get into fat talk unless she initiates it.
On dating apps, similarly, do not mention their body at all, until she brings it up. The biggest woman i've ever been with (around 500ishlb), i met on tinder, who i almost fumbled because i opened with a message that ended with 'oh, and i love your figure! ' and she told me later on that if i didnt follow it up with another message about her interests that she mentioned in her profile, she wouldn't have replied. Now, turned out she was MUCH bigger in person, so I could have really missed.
If she brings it up, be open, say you're into it bigger bodies, and its not a problem, but do not bring it up at again. When you've slept together for the first time they'll probably have figured out because your hands are all over them, you'll grab their belly etc. In which case they either shut it down (prepare to get ghosted) or dont mind it because they like the physical affection that comes ith it.
The ones that stick around, you can then start talking to them about kinks and interests, most wont get it, but will slowly come round to it. If you dont come on too strong about it, they'll warm up to it.
Being well dressed, respectful, open, getting to know them and not love-bombing / fetish-bombing them immediately is where it works best. And it's worth noting, I am a 6/10 at best, im a little overwight, I wasn't able to drive until around a year ago and I have a very modest job, and I had very little problem getting fat as fuck girls.
Be nice, dont make it all about the fat. It's a lot of work, but it pays off. When im single I used to spend around one hour a day in total (often when just waking up) doing the dating app rounds / looking for matches. But it works.
Godspeed.
