>>45608>>45650Dominatrix. Have some free advice.
Being horny turns off the part of the brain that makes people feel fear or disgust. If you're into blueberry inflation, the attraction was to Veruca Salt and the inflation part (which was supposed to be a punishment) became sexual by association. Once you outgrow Veruca Salt, what you're left with is an inflation fetish.
If you go the other way around though (starting with fear, pain, shame, disgust and so on), you're unable to get horny, and the more you force the fetish on someone the less able they'll be to connect that fetish with sexual feelings in the future.
I'm in the camp that you shouldn't push your fetishes onto other people, but if you want someone to start accepting your kinks you have to start from a place of comfort rather than discomfort.
Don't forget, there was a time when Snuffy ""didn't want"" a big booba model.