I love my girlfriend. However, she is thin, and although she is aesthetically beautiful, I can't stop thinking about BBWs. I'm not sure if I'm physically attracted to her, but my ideal of beauty is BBWs (and she knows this), and all of this creates great confusion and frustration for me. Am I the only one?

>>52325 (OP)
If your dick gets hard for her during sex, you're definitely at least somewhat attracted to her :)

You're not the only one. You're a feeder right? Get to feeding her, get her into feederism. It's not that hard it's just a feedback loop of positive reinforcement. Get her fat retard, there's enough advice on here on how to do that.

If a fetish is getting in the way of your relationship with her then it's time to break up. I don't care what the dude above me or the comments after this one says, having to fattening her up just to please your urges is a horrible and selfish mindset to have. True love is accepting whatever appearence your partner has, otherwise you're no better than the feeders who fatten these women up and then dump them because all they ever focused on was their weight and nothing else regarding the relationship.

>>52354
You realize not every woman will be ok with this right?
Fucking retard.

>>52355
>>52358

Finally, some people here with more than two brain cells.

Let me ask you this, italianon. Can you imagine spending the next 20 years with her? 40? What if she's thin? If you can't, I think your desire for a fat girl is stronger than the desire for you girlfriend.

>>52372
Noweganon is right.

Unsure if I could comfortably date a thin girl at all? I've never had any interest at all for skinny girls, but a few months ago I went on a few dates with this petite girl who I bonded a lot with because we come from the same cultural background and had too much in common with to ignore. But it didn't really go anywhere, probably because she sensed my lack of enthusiasm.
Fast forward to today, for some reason I caught myself Googling random people I know and for some reason she pops up in my mind, and a picture of her from 2019 shows up, then I get a huge surprise: she used to be fat as fuck.

It made a lot of sense since she had a very pointy chin like some people who lost a bunch of weight have.. It definitely made me wonder what could've been, especially now that I know how hot she looked fat. Despite her size I'd say she used to be conventionally attractive while now she looks a bit plain and way older than her real age. In the old picture she even wore tight jeans with her belly bulging out while now she just wears those baggy semi formal pants you buy at shein.

>>53894
I think you should try to be friends with thin girls and hope you become attracted to one of them over time.

Stop looking at so much porn.

>>53916

So fucking true. I've been with my wife for 13 years and if I go down a bad hole (usually in winter) I'm pretty much awake in the early hours nutting off to 600lbs fatties. It rots your brain big time.

My wife hasn't been less than 300 in all the time we've been together, she's recently gained 50lbs courtesy of work stress, and I pretty much want to bone her everynight, but get in a bad way with porn and she's too small for me.

>>54001
Yeah if 300 pounds is "too small" for you, you should try to quit watching porn all together. A bad sex life will always be the demise of any relationship. If you can't get intimate with your partner because this stupid fetish gets in the way, quit and force your brain to wanna get hard for her.

>>54001
You ungrateful man. Yea stop porn if are going into fantasy land and thinking of her getting as big of your house and you can’t get turned on from 300 and a 50 pound gain.

>>54017
I would think 350 is big and love and logic would override your fetish not really want her bed bound. You need some help.

>>54016
>>54001
Nothing wrong with that. Never know if she ever gets to 400lbs could be the point of no going back.

>>54016
Mine went from 350 to 290 and I struggled 😭

>>54001
No offence but I'm glad I don't have this problem. I've posted here before saying that my favourite aspect of fat fetishism is literally just the experience of having sex with fat women. But for me it doesn't matter how big she is, as long as she has some softness / curves / jiggly bits. If I had to pick a minimum weight I guess I'd say 200lbs

A fetish is just that. A fantasy. If you can’t keep your fantasy and real life seperate or understand how to compartmentalize both you’re not better than the homos and trannies

>>54037
Bro you're actually retarded if you think being gay is a fetish. Grow up.

>>54039
And it looks like you refuse to acknowledge that faggots end up getting colon cancer or AIDS, but hey those are just made up medical illnesses created by the CIA just to demonize flaggots who dindu noffin.

>>54039
They’re fetishizing something that is not meant to be. Dicks are not meant for asses, people are not made for the same sex. It had no purpose other than pleasure. It’s a fetish.

>>54052
Ok yank

>>54068
There’s a point to be made that anything except dick in vagina sex is either a fetish or some other kind of deviancy.
But that’s fucking stupid and ignores all the social aspects of sexuality that aren’t directly related to reproduction.
Studying the animal kingdom, there’s plenty of non-reproductive sex that serves social purposes: (e.g. lesbianism among primates: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0018506X19301503).

>>54040
Are they eating the dogs and cats too?

>>54040
boy, you sure do love talking about faggots and colons, don't you?