>>52835I briefly dated a girl who was 5'3" and 230lbs when we met. Before we met, she absolutely ballooned during covid lockdown, more than doubling her weight and getting up to 270lbs - quite quickly too, in only about 1½ years. In other words, she went from 120ish to 270 to 230.
Despite still actively losing weight while we were dating, she was by far the most into feedism of any girl I've dated. For example she liked heing called fatty/piggy, liked me groping her belly in public etc. She was only losing weight because of her health (she was very close to becoming diabetic) otherwise she would've kept gaining.
This sounds good (and it was) but had its drawbacks too. She constantly complained about being hungry because she was dieting. And she regularly tried to cajole me into sabotaging her diet, basically so that she could blame me for binging/gaining and absolve herself of responsibility, which led to fights between us.
The reason I am replying to your post is because she once asked me to show her an example of a fat girl I liked on social media. I showed her picrel and she said "oh, you like 'em BIG big, huh?" and that sort of opened the floodgates for the feedism stuff. After that she showed me a WG comp video she'd made of herself showing her journey to 270, and pics of her with another BBW she'd slept with.
In the end I broke up with her primarily because she was very immature and mentally unstable (very severe ADHD and 3 serious suicide attempts), and secondarily because the constant "I'm trying to lose weight, but I want you to fatten me up, but I'll yell at you for not feeding me / yell at you for feeding me" drove me fucking insane.