I don't care about feeding, gaining, eating, laziness, scale numbers, immobility, or any of the adjacent fetishes. I like the way BBW/SSBBWs look and feel and that's pretty much it. I'm pretty vanilla in that regard. As a matter of fact, I actually find the limited mobility and stamina of bigger women to be a bit of a turn off in real life. Even seeing just how much my ex would eat was slightly off putting. It's almost like I'm not actually meant to be an FA, or I'm not a "proper" one. I mean I still exclusively only like fat women, and I like things about them that only they've got (immense size in general, big bellies, etc), but all the other stuff just doesn't do it for me.

Can anyone relate?

Yes.

>>51386 (OP)
Same here. Though I might try get her to gain a bit if she isn't quite what I want in a BBW, and I will admit someone who can be a bit lazy at times is something I desire I'm more of a home person.

TL;DR:

Just say "I only like smallfats" next time dude.

>>51399
Smallfats, or /c/hubby material as I like to call it, can but doesn't have to include "feeding, gaining, eating, laziness, scale numbers, immobility, or any of the adjacent fetishes", to quote OP.

>>51386 (OP)
I am into weight gain, drawn girls getting fat, bbws etc. But the weirdest thing is the idea of getting fat from eating food, stuffing their face, tubefed, feeder/feedee, turns me off so much. The only method that is possible for this fetish to even happen in real life, turns me off??

>>51404
Honestly same. I vastly prefer magical or science fiction causes of weight gain, or even it just happening for no reason, to food

>>51399

I prefer women in the 350 to 500 range. Nothing small about that.

I find gluttony and weight gain sexy especially if it's a conventional hot girl gaining some weight not some 400lb blob, but I also dislike greed and laziness and wouldn't want a partner with those qualities so it leaves me very conflicted.

If they have the fetish then it's likely that they're just indulging it - if they don't have the fetish and they gain a bunch of weight then that usually points to some sort of extreme greed or mental illness or metabolic issue which isn't great.

Yes, absolutely. I don’t understand how anyone here gets off to videos of girls eating a whole pizza. I’m exclusively attracted to fat girls but the content on here is only pornographic to me if it’s overtly sexual.

>>51413
>I also dislike greed and laziness and wouldn't want a partner with those qualities so it leaves me very conflicted.
I am in the same situation

>If they don't have the fetish and they gain a bunch of weight then that usually points to some sort of extreme greed or mental illness or metabolic issue which isn't great.
I 100% agree with this as well

My solution is to not have a long term partner for a short period of time (a year) so I can enjoy what I like and once that is over, I'll get into a more serious relashionship that is not based of a fetish

It works for me as I am in my early 20's, so I'll give myself a last year of non serious relashionships and once thst is over, I'll move on to build a serious one.

It allows me to experience what I like (bbw's) and then move on to something serious.

>>51447

But you're moving on to something serious that you don't like? Or don't like as much

>>51413
Become a lesbian trans woman

>>51448
>But you're moving on to something serious that you don't like? Or don't like as much
Correct, I would not mind dating a skinny girl as long as we get along really well. Plus, my lifestyle would makes dating a larger girl more difficult (I am quite active)

I did met a skinny women recently and we had a great time

I usually have more things in common with skinnier women, so long term wise it makes sense for me

That being said, I would probably ask her if she is ok with me watching some porn from time to time in order to still get off to bbw's and I would be honest to her that I prefer bbw's

For me, my ong term relashionship would be more than just my preference towards bbw's

but, I will make sure to have great bbw fun prior making that move

>>51474

Have you had sex with a skinny girl before? I've gotten hard for skinny girls in real life but I didn't have sex with them and don't know if I'd even enjoy it.

I'm also active and my lifestyle is not well matched for bigger women. I don't know that I could be with a skinny girl forever that I wasn't really sexually attracted to. I mean that's also a hard sell too. Women are not going to want to hear that you don't find them sexually attractive.

>>51477
>Have you had sex with a skinny girl before?
No, I will have to try that before making the switch. I have never tried anything with a skinny women. I have only been with bbw's

>Women are not going to want to hear that you don't find them sexually attractive
That's a big issue as well

I still like women, so my plan is to accept my bbw fetish as a fantasy. And as it's only a fetish, I should still be able to get hard with skinny women

If I can't... well... this might be more than a fetish. I do have to say that I had never seen it anything else than a fetish/fantasy

Plus, I know that this is not like irl, but I did try to look at skinny women porn on coomer, but I was unable to get hard at all

In the worst case scenario, my relashionship might end up like other relashionships composed of partners with less sex drive. It is not ideal as some women may prefer a more sexualy active relashionship that I would not be able to offer if they are not a bbw

In any case, my life goals matter more than having a fat partner. I'd rather have a skinny women and have a life that I want to have instead of being restricted by a fat partner only for sexual pleasure

In my case, bbw's get a little bit old after a while (especially how different our values are and lifestyles). So, I would not want to compromise my future because of a partner

but, if your life goals includes a hot fat partner, go for it! That is just not my case. We all have differemt goals and that's ok

btw, when I say goals, I am not refering to those typical relashionship goals, but rather what I want to do in life/how I want to contribute to the society that I live in

in my case, minimizing my consumption of goods is a part of what I am doing. So, feeding or overeating to keep a bbw fat is not exactly aligned with that