I'm in my mid 20s and have been finding myself increasingly more attracted to older bbws (30s to 50s).

How do I as a younger guy go about seducing them for a hookup or fwb situation? Where do I even start to look?

Literally just talk to them and don't be weird. Start with an opener about their outfit or a question about where they are. If they aren't open to talking to you you'll know.

You're in your mid-20s and the best years for these women are behind them. As long as you put effort into your appearance, you'll do fine.

Go on the apps with your age range. If you’re at all attractive it will be easy.
Aim for single moms. We know they fuck and probably don’t have a lot of free time for real dating.

frequent semi-ritzy bars and happy hours at thse bars. basically go to to oppositie of sports bars college party bars. also frequent tourist trap type areas. BBws always have jobs in these areas

>>51169
I don't go to many bars. Any terms I should look trying to find ones near me?

Try sites like feabie. And be open with them about liking older women, as someone in their 50s may wonder if you made a mistake reaching out to them.

Facebook dating is where it's at. You would actually be surprised how many older women would be open to dating younger guys. Right now I have 3 in my rotation, all between 50 and 59. One was actually my old manager when I first started working at 19. I found her years later on Facebook, messaged her and told her that I always been attracted to her. At first she was a little abrasive and said her eldest son is my age, 32, but she gave in and I have been fucking her ever since. Literally just meet up for sex, I'm actually trying to get rid of her now because she had weight loss surgery and isn't as fat anymore. I also just met another on Facebook dating who I'm supposed to see for the first time this Friday. We are meeting at a hotel, she's 59 used to weigh 400lbs but started eating better and now is 292lbs, nice pear shape though. I say all this to say just get out there and start talking to them bro. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. I included a picture of the text tread from my old manager who's obsessed.

How are you guys not repulsed by old fatties? I love big girls but 34 is pretty much the cut off before shit starts to look spoiled

>>51361
Agreed. I might push to like 40 max but agreed otherwise.
Past 40 (especially if they're SSBBW-sized), most big girls just start to look like John Goodman IMO

>>51361
Maybe looking spoiled is part of the appeal

The simple fact, OP....is that you don't.

Big women at in that age range already know what the game is and what they like

Just because a chick is fat doesn't mean dating is honestly that different...the simple fact is that if you're chasing cougars as a young buck, you're not gonna be the one doing the "seducing" lol. Just treat them like a normal person.

I’m a close to 40 BBW, still hot AF and have no problem getting men despite what some ppl in the thread think. Anyway I thought I would help you guys out of you want to get women like me. I have dated guys 10+ years younger than me and I have friends around my age (not BBWs but also very hot) that have or are willing to date younger guys. You need to know where older women are coming from when they are with a younger guy. Also it's true what … said that it's the same for all of them regardless if they are BBWs or not.

When older women date or think about dating younger men we are expecting it to be fun and physical. We get it guys in their 20s aren't looking for happily ever after and the ones that are will change so much in the next few years that they won't want the same things anymore so we know it probably won't work out. Please don't tell us upfront that you just want to fuck. It seems younger people have been trained to date using apps so y’all come across as very transactional. Like you just want to exchange information, see if you are compatible and decide to move forward with the fucking. I have a friend, 37, who irl/not on a app a 20s guy asked for her number, text her and asked her what she was looking for? like mother fucker she's a single mom with 4 kids. She's too busy to look for anything, you approached her while she was at work . You don't need to put it out there in the beginning that you just want to fuck. It's a turn off. We want to be liked for more than just fucking, or at least we want to imagine there is a little more to it than just that. 🙄

Older women like to go on dates and have fun even when they know they are just going to hook up. We want more than just an orgasm. We can do that for ourselves. If we are going to fit you into our schedules we want a full experience. If we are with a younger guy we want it to be fun and carefree. We want you to be charming and adorable. Don't worry you don't have to try too hard, we will already think you're cute, just be sweet. Take us out, if we have fun with you and decide we like you, we will be willing to fuck you. Just make a move at the end of the night, but likely we will end up making a move on you first. We want to actually like a guy's personality and have fun with them. It makes the fucking better for us. If all we want is to just get off, it's easier for us to just do it ourselves.

If everything goes well she will want to go on more dates, and be willing to do just booty calls. If she's financially stable and knows you aren't she will probably be willing to pay for you when you go out, but don't make it seem like you expect it.

You young guys come at us like you think you're hot shit but you need to bring more than just your dicks to the table. You don't have long term relationship potential, most of y'all don't have any money so after that all you have left is your young, carefree spirit. We want to have fun! A lot of times y’all are more fun than older guys so use that to your advantage.

If you have more questions feel free to ask.

>>51437
Hi, I have a question: You from the New England area by any chance?

>>50997 (OP)
I am in my mid 20's as well, met a woman in her early 50's at an activity and we had a good time talking. She said that she is single without kids and we have some common interests. Not really a big bbw, but still. It got me thinking if I should give a try to older women. I will most likely not do anything with her as she's not really a bbw

You could go to activities/bars where less people in their 20's show up. I ended up talking to another one after

>>51437
Thank you for your input. I'll think about it. I had never considered this route (going with older women)

>>51470
No I'm not and I'm not single.

>>51437
> I’m a close to 40 BBW, still hot AF and have no problem getting men despite what some ppl in the thread think.
> It seems younger people have been trained to date using apps so y’all come across as very transactional
> You don't have long term relationship potential, most of y'all don't have any money so…
Dudes. I’m a 37 year old man. Don’t listen to this wrinkle hag, she’s still got a wet enough pussy if you can’t pull but comeon. You can’t smell the entitled cunt behavior from a mile away.
These women are bitter because no millennial men with their shit together are willing to marry her ugly, greedy, superficial ass (which she probably can’t even wipe).
Or in full of shit and she loves her life despite that creed: you slay queen

>>51478
Lol I just said I'm not single anymore in my last post. I'm in a long term happy relationship with a guy I'm madly in love with, living in a big house with a guy a couple years older than me. I just wrote this as a public service to the young guys wanting to fuck. I have dated younger guys in the past and it was lots of fun for everyone. I just feel bad for them cause they don't know how to approach us. I wrote my comment as a public service. You just sound bitter.

>>51480
> living in a big house with a guy a couple years older than me
Pro tip. Settle into a golddigging relationship with a geriatric.
> I wrote my comment as a public service. You just sound bitter.
OK boomer.

>>51480
>I just feel bad for them cause they don't know how to approach us
you are one of many, but not all

>>51481
I said he's a couple years older than me, like he's literally 2 years older than me. He's a millennial too.

Anyway I didn't come here to argue. I know that was a little too much to expect from BBW chan. I was just trying to help. Y'all can take the advice or leave it. It doesn't impact me at all, someone asked for help and I was just doing what I could.

>>51483
> He's a millennial too.
Mid forties is gen-x lady. You grew up before cell phones or the internet existed. Stop being a Karen and let the dudes talk about their experiences HAGMAXXING without the cool auntie talking about her premarital sexcapades

>>51486
Fine I'm out. I'll just let you guys keep giving each other advice since y'all are such pros at getting laid.

I am not sure why fat women are trying to give Trump like advice on a fetish forum. That era of Tyler Durden style masculinity selling commercialism isn't coming back.

>>51487
Ok. Now that aunt Beth is gone.
Forget her advice. Don’t be taking these women on dates. Just aim to fuck in the afternoon when their kids aren’t home (if she has a kid you know she fucks).
You don’t need to dress well, or come correct or be romantic or any of that jazz. She’s in her forties and single, just have sweaty sex with desperate milfs.

>>51361
Emma St James is 40 something and looks better than most of the 20 year olds posted on this site

>>51489
Because I'm a content creator and we lurk on here anyway. I just finally decided to comment.

>>51490
Yes if you want desperate women follow this guys advice. I guess my advice is how to get hot older women with standards.

>>51493
Basically sugar momma material

Ok that's enough slumming it for me. This time I really am out. Bye guys! ❤️

>>51492
>>51493
Nobody wants content creators.

>>51499
> Ok that's enough slumming it for me.
See this is why you never date white women (I’m white btw). This woman is a literal hooker and thinks its “slumming” it to talk to well employed young men with degrees who aren’t the dregs of society, shamefully selling her carnival sideshow body.

>>51493
> my advice is how to get hot older women with standards.
Standard advice applies: “Treat a whore like a lady, and a lady like a whore”.
Seeing as this woman is a whore her advice applies. Decent well adjusted old women just want sex from young men, they’ll let the old dudes with money romance them (same as this wrinkly street walker).

>>51505

LMAO.

I can literally feel the bitterness behind your posts dude.

Just how many women have turned you down after finding out that your only pitch is that you're a dipshit with an engineering degree?

>>51493
> I guess my advice is how to get hot older women with standards.
LOL the coping and seething is so obvious here. You wasted your good years, enjoy being pumped and dumped lmao

>>51610
Have pity, roasties are mald Applebee's, TGI Fridays, Red Lobster shut down and thru can't afford McDonald's

so how do i buggery old bbws

>>51493
I kinda do want desperate woman, cuz I doubt the ones with standards are gonna fuck me.

>>51670
There aren’t 35+ women with standards. This women is a sex worker writing romantic fiction. Single women at that age have been around the block and seen 50-200 different dicks. Most don’t have time for romantic dates with a kid anyway.
There’s no need for all this “courting” shit, just bump into her shopping cart make some comment about “being in the bread aisle” and try to fuck her in the afternoon, she’ll probably also pay for your weed if you got good dick.