>>47293 (OP)You've not said whether you are in a relationship or not, and if she's a bbw or greater. IMHO it makes a difference.
If you've a thing for ssbbws, that narrows your dating pool significantly. I was late settling down into marriage and had 20 years of dating, relationships, flings, casual encounters etc 90% of whom were UK size 22, most considerably bigger. I didn't always like superfat women, but the bigger they were the more I was into it. It was like a fucking drug, I just couldn't get enough fat.
Watching 600lb women like Heather and seeing big cuties get insanely big distorts your real life appreciation of your preference for fat, in the same way that teenage boys think all women should be absolute sluts and crave anal and facials constantly.
Too much porn distorts real life relationships. Everything in moderation is a helluva good statement because it's true. A few drinks regularly is fine, downing half a litre of vodka daily just to function isn't.
It's not the fat fetish that's a problem, it's porn addiction. I don't think the OP has a fat fetish, he has a preference for fat women and an unhealthy fascination with porn.
If you're not in a relationship it distorts your view on having a healthy relationship with a fat girl. Real relationships with fat girls isn't feeding them cake and grabbing their fat on camera. I fucking love my wife, she's just under 300lb now, down nearly 100lb from 10 years ago, but we stopped fucking after COVID jabs and I got into a bad place with fat porn. It's like having an affair, porn is giving you the unobtainable. The wife is 290lb and I was coming to 600lb. That's virtually un-obtainable in the UK, and I wasn't never going to leave my wife to go chase it. But that dopamine hit was like the crackheads drug, so I made the effort to keep away from it a whole lot more. No doubt he'll put his feet in the water again, but keeping the actual fat fetish porn in check is fucking worthwhile to balance out real life experiences.
When you're having sex with someone you fucking love, you're not just getting the dopamine hit, youre both sharing serotonin and oxytocin which bonds you, and that throws a male orgasm through the roof and gives you a dopamine hit that far exceeds busting your nut to porn. That's what you need to keep in check.
Porn is having an affair and keeping it a secret from the wife. Your virtually cheating on your partner if you're letting it affect the actual real life relationship.
Before we got back to actual healthy regular sex I used the porn to get me off in my head, that ain't sustainable. It's also fucking selfish, your partner isn't grabbing your attention, it's the virtual porn in your head.
Fucking long way of saying well done to the guy for abstaining, if he's in a relationship it will work wonders putting porn away for a long while. If he's not, he should be able to focus on finding a great relationship, and hopefully be proud to date a plus sized girl, cos as we all know on here, fat girls are the best.
I'll give it a few hours tops before I get the obligatory 'youre a faggot' schizo remarks. Fire all your shitty comments you like, I have a great life and treaty fat wife like a fucking queen.