Hey guys. I've started dating a girl who's 5'1" and about 350lbs (that's an estimate). I'm 6'5" and slim. My dick is about 5½" long and very thick. I've never measured the circumference but multiple women (including her) have commented on how thick it is. She actually said "holy shit" when she saw it.

We had sex the other day but it was pretty difficult and a bit painful for both of us. It's difficult to get it in because of how fat she is, as well as the height difference, and the dimensions of my dick. In both missionary and doggy-style my dick gets bent while going into her; this is what causes the pain for me. The pain for her is caused by how thick my dick is. There's quite a bit of fat around her vulva, such that I was only fucking it (rather than her actual vulva) at some points. I have actually fucked women with (more or less) the same BMI as her before (albeit much taller) and not had this much difficulty so I think it's really the height difference that's the issue here.

We've tried the "pillow under her ass" trick (which does help) but is there anything else we can do?

>pic semi-related; she has a similar body type but slightly fatter

>>43933 (OP)

Probably not very helpful but try missionary with her legs on top of your shoulders (or maybe your chest since your a tall lad)/ This helps get it in fairly good but I get a similar issue with my dick bending, especially when I am going in and out every time instead of just staying in and thrusting. I've a similar length knob so trying to get passed the fat can be an issue sometimes and a bit more length would be handy (could also do with a bit of thicker cock but that's beside the point). Having the legs up and grabbing the bed frame behind I found helped stabilise me and her a small bit

Other then that, try it with her on her side and kneel down inbetween one of her thighs with the other in the air or being held with your hand/shoulder. See how your man is over her thigh. It usually lets you get a bit deeper

With regards to thickness, not much I can say other than make sure she is very wet or at least use some extra lube if needed. It might just take a bit of getting used to for her

Who is the girl in the pic btw and also, where are you finding these ones in Ireland? Whereabouts in the country are you finding these 300lbs+ ones? I can't seem to find them anywhere and I'm not in a rural or sparsely populated part of the country at all. How did you meet her?

>>43933 (OP)
Shes roughly the shape and size of my girl, and I'm not quite as tall as you but still...

Any lady you fuck probably has to be nice and lubed up before sex. My girl is really tight, so we do a lot of foreplay. She really loves those vibrating wands those get her lubed up and loose. If she is still a little tight or dry we use a bit of water based lube. Having her start on top helps a lot.

Doggy style you really gotta spread them cheeks. When I feel like my dick is bending its usually a height issue, probably from your longer femurs.

Its all about dem angles

Be tall and muscular.
Figure out what works for getting your junk as balls deep in there as possible.
Lift heavy and do cardio. Practice fuck milfs, peoples fat wives who are at the gym because they can’t get any at home.

>>43943
Thanks for the advice, lad. I'll try that position next time.

>Who is the girl in the pic btw
I don't know, sorry

>where are you finding these ones in Ireland? Whereabouts in the country are you finding these 300lbs+ ones?
I met her on Bumble. We both live in Dublin. Most of the ones I've met were in and around Dublin, although the biggest girl I've been with (who was 5'6" and 400ish) was from the midlands. I never had any luck with BBW-specific dating apps/sites (e.g. Feabie, WooPlus etc); there just isn't that many Irish girls on them. She actually is on those sites but I didn't meet her that way. She's very into body positivity / happy with her size but isn't really into feedism or fat kink stuff at all, although she is very aware of it and knows all the lingo etc lol.

I met all the BBWs I've fucked on dating apps - again, not BBW-specific ones. I had the most luck with Tinder but I've met one from Bumble (the girl I'm with now) and another from Hinge. It just takes a lot of luck and patience. Although honestly I think the apps are kind of drying up these days - not necessarily in terms of BBWs but just in general. I know people say this a lot but I really do think the algorithm/monetisation stuff is complete shite these days.

Oral is, IMO, crucial to keeping a fat girl happy. Especially when they start getting too big to reach. Make her cum with your tongue, then flip her over and get her on all fours. Mine’s about 370 and she usually gets off twice when we have at it.

If you’re brave or have a good headboard for her to grab, try letting her ride your face. Work out a signal for when you need more air. She might be nervous at first, but tell her that you know what you’re getting into.

>>43949
They leak pornography here fyi. Lol

>>43950
Yup, but what are you gonna do with a girl whose last name isn’t “.jpeg”, pal?

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>>43954
Faggot

If your dick is hurting her, you need to go down on her for longer to loosen her up and get her wet.

A girl that size should have two pillows stacked under the ass.

If you have a tall bed frame you could stand during doggy at the side of the bed. Add pillows under her knees to raise her up if needed, and use pillows under the stomach for support.

In short, if she's big and you aren't using an army of support pillows, you're doing it wrong.

>>43949
Oral is essential. If she isn't cumming twice you're doing something wrong.

>>44048
The pillow advice has never worked for me. For instance I find with women with big asses I need her to be lower for to get a good angle when in missionary which is often the one position you can reliably get her into for someone well over 300. The last girl I was seeing was near 460 and I had to lift her belly to get all the way inside her. That shit is life changing.

>>43933 (OP)
This is a little off topic but I just have to know. Is it 5 1/2 flaccid or hard/stretched out? I guess I’m on the other end of the spectrum, think mines a little longer but not as thick. The biggest I’ve ever measured was just under 7 1/2 hard, measured from the top. I’ve been told it’s uncomfortable but it doesn’t look that impressive to me.

Is it true bigger girls prefer girth over length?

>>43933 (OP)
No one on this site has sex bro. Why do you think we are here?

>>44069
All girls prefer girth over length. Past 6 or so inches there aren't any nerve endings in there. Though if a guy is too short it's gonna be a problem because of the extra cushion. Like all women, fatties want to get rammed hard without it popping out every 3 seconds.

>>44078
So you take it up the ass. You know what works and what doesnt. Imagine a man telling the world what kind of penis and size women like deep inside them haha

>>44079
Yeah the only way to know is by taking it up the ass myself, because women don’t share their thoughts on what they like. Can’t imagine where your hostility comes from, go yell at your breakfast, weirdo.

I'm kinda thick as well and lube was a game changer for me. I don't know if you've tried it already or not. I lube up both the entry way and my penis. You also want to make sure she's not too tense from anxiety or anything. Foreplay is necessary as well. If I tried penetration too soon it can be pretty tight.

Definitely wish there was a good resource on Fat Sex. "Big, Big Love" is the common recommendation but it's the sex equivalent of a recipe blog that's 95% blog/bullshit.

>>44069
>Is it 5 1/2 flaccid or hard/stretched out?
5½" hard. Not stretched out. Probably about 3" flaccid (again, not stretched out) lmao
>Is it true bigger girls prefer girth over length?
I honestly don't know. I've only ever had sex with big girls (most in the low-mid 200s, a couple in the mid 300s, one close to 400). Like I said several have commented on my girth but she (i.e. the girl I made this thread about) was the first to say it was painful.
>>44110
We did use lube but only after I insisted. She was weirdly reluctant to use any lube; she thought it would make me slip out but she was tight enough that that wasn't a problem in the end.

The bigger problem was that it was difficult to insert it in the first place because of how fat she is + the height difference.
We did plenty of foreplay (mostly just making out for ages) but she was also weirdly indifferent about her own pleasure, which is sometimes a thing with Irish girls, believe it or not. At one stage I was fingering her (trying to find the actual hole because I couldn't get my dick in properly) and she bluntly said it felt like I was giving her a [gynaecological] exam, which kinda hurt ngl, especially because none of my previous partners have ever complained about my fingering skills. I offered to go down on her but she was also totally indifferent about that.

I dunno guys, the more I think about it the more I'm thinking it might not be worth it. My dick was very sore the day after. But we'll see how it goes. She's asking me about toys now and I'm kinda like "yeah sure we can try it" but I'm not sure I want to be in a relationship where our sex life is just us using toys in the same bed.

>>44078
Hahaha. Dude has no idea how angles work. Or where the g-spot is. Length gets you past a fat ass and chubby pussy, can’t fuck fat bitches with a choad.
Girth is good if you’re not skilled enough to use a long dick. Skinny and long is bad, short and fat is better.
The analogy is basketball. Long enough (e.g. 7.5+) to hit all the spots is able to dunk. If you can’t dunk it’s nice to be a bit heavier and play hard in the paint.

>>44117
The only other thing I can think of with this lady is that she might be one of those women where her g-spot and climax is tied to anal rather than vaginal sex. It's uncommon (10% of all women was the stat I remember reading), but it does happen.

>>44118
This was a solid analogy lmao, thank you. Turns out my girth is about average. Call it about 7 inches hard in length, 5.5 in girth. I always hear people say it’s “more about how you use it” but what does that even mean? Pressing upwards for the g spot? Good speed? Penetration?

>>44130
Kisame here: New analogy, Football wide receiver. It’s the right mix of bodying little guys, while putting a wiggle on the big guys. Angles, rhythm and the right mix of power/finesse.

Tips for a long dick of acceptable girth:
A) get balls deep, its wider at the bottom many nerves are at the opening but the A spot is back about 6-7 inches.
B) use the head strategically, it’s also wider. Penetrate slow then fast, jam that into the spots. work that shit like an egg beater around the boxing ball in the back. If she likes getting backwalled, beat that shit up.
C) angles are a long man’s freind. Length can augment girth thru simple trigonometry. Stretch it side to side, work the head towards her belly button/G-spot. (Learned this from gay porn and I’m straight. Really they work that shit mechanically as a lever to maximize penile sheer force at the wall of the anus.)
D) Also, the above picture is basically how to cause a g-spot orgasm with your hand, do that together a few times and get an understanding for what it should feel like. It should get warm and engorged when stimulated.
E) Women get engorged when turned on, their vaginal walls get extra soft, plushy and warm. foreplay might make it tighter (to a degree)
F) Different positions hit different spots from different angles. With a long dick, you can still fuck a fatty from every angle and get decent penetration.
G) YMWV. Some women only orgasm from clitoral stimulation. Other women can orgasm an infinite amount of times just from a dick and no foreplay. I track how my metrics and chase key performance indicators.

>>44132
Don't listen to this loser. I am medicated

>>44132
Nice try but this is an imposter mods

No offense but I am heading too busy rehabilitate mentally and won't be back as Kisame17

>>44130
Mods are little dick bastards.
Why you delete everything? This was on topic you bitch.

>>44130
Shit that’s gigantic.
What’s it like to see a woman actually enjoy dick, I’ve always wanted to know.

>>44130
Varied speed, angles, kegals, etc. you don't just want to only jackhammer it in, obvi.

>>44166
I only cum from jackhammering. I’m average/below average so I’m pretty sure I’m not gonna do any damage.

>>44117
>she was also weirdly indifferent about her own pleasure, which is sometimes a thing with Irish girls, believe it or not.

This is actually a lot of women, the general consensus from "sex experts" and the fem-sphere is that you need a whole elaborate mating dance with chocolate covered strawberries and peacock feathers up the butt, however the truth is that some women just like getting fucked hard right off the bat and that's all that they want. The overly done foreplay stuff is for nervous women, and women who are unsure about you. If she likes and trusts you, she's already thought about it as much as you have and just wants it.

I had similar experiences with women until I was with this girl who tried all kinds of "Cosmos Top Ten Sex Tips" bullshit with me when all I really wanted was to slam her fat ass, I realized that men and women are alike enough that what I was feeling was what the girls in the past felt, basically: "just stick your dick in me already you pansy". Obvs ymmv, but I learned that for lots of women, if they like you(and trust you, this is key), it's fun and thrilling for them to just be taken, little to no foreplay beyond making out, like you can't control it because you find them so hot. The inverse is true, if you spend too much time with foreplay you seem indecisive and maybe worried about your performance, like maybe you don't really like her and have to work up to it.

I'm married now and I still try and make the effort with foreplay, but my wife is really not interested in it and has never complained about not getting orgasms or enough of them. She just likes getting held down and jackhammered, and really importantly, she likes knowing how happy I am and how good of a time I had, that's what really turns her on.

What are your methods for eating SSBBW pussy? The last one wanted me to eat her out but I needed to use my whole arm to move her gut out the way and four fingers on my other hand just to spread the lips open to get to the clit. There's gotta be an easier way.

>>44304
ask her to hold her belly up and spread her legs more, you can start without it but switch to it later, tell her how you can feel her fupa ripple when she jiggles her belly, when she's close to cumming get your hands around her love handles and pull her towards your face for extra pressure

just some things I've done that girls have liked, no particular order

>>44311
Kisame here: lift up her fupa, spread some peanut butter on her flaps and call over the dog. If she’s really fat, she can’t see down there enough to know whose doing the work.

>>44328
Unless she is already going for the dog when she is home alone...

>>44363
You don’t have to dogpill me brother. Around here the women make out with their hounds in public.

>>44230

it's not only about u tho.

>>44402
Most of us here have pretty small penises. Especially the mods. I’ve seen them delete posts just because the guy was happy with his dick.

honestly this is a tip that goes for slim or fat women. USE LUBE, you'll save yourself so much difficulty and time trying to get in.

also, grab HER for leverage, missionary while outright grabbing lovehandles/belly fat . this is what we do it for boys

>>44525
Second the grabbing fat for leverage. I've never had sex with a skinny girl and I don't even get how I would. What would I grab, how do I steady myself? I guess there's so much less weight throwing me back, but it's hard to picture.

>>44538
Need to eat and let her ass hang the fuck out obese in needed

>>44538
Skinny girls are better because the dick is less likely to slide out. My fat girls are difficult to even get more than my head in past the fat.

>>44304
Honestly bro you gotta make a path and just go tf in. Speaking for myself as someone who dated exclusively ssbbws after the age of 20, you gotta be cool with goin in on a girl and not looking back even if you get buried in her because while some will help you out if you're good enough at it they really won't be able to nor will most feel comfortable with you wanting them to.

That's not to say you can't ease in or fuck around a lil but you gotta be making the opportunity and committing to eatin that pussy like she is to her favorite foods. Always have her sit on your face whenever possible for the best results but I wouldn't recommend it if you're still new to it.

>>44065
Life changing in a good way?

>>44065
Oral should only be performed by women.
If your dick can’t get it done, it’s because you’re too small to reach the right pockets. If she’s been around the block a little she knows what the problem is.
Unless she’s a dom, eating her box like her bitch isn’t gonna help the fact that she sees you as a woman. Or at least she sees you similar to how I see trans-women, ok to look at but useless to me sexually.

>>45677
Sounds like the last vag you saw was your mom’s as she pushed you out of it.

Bringing any woman to orgasm is difficult, let alone a fat one. I’m worried it’ll never happen for most. Can they even get horny after putting on so much weight?

>>45686
Small dick issue buddy.
I’ve never had a problem bringing any girl to orgasm. Fat girls are easier if anything because they got more padding.

>>45689
Or could just be this guy. I'm super small and never had an issue making fat girls cum. I'm literally like 3.5 inches but I'm thick and curve up and hit the gspot when grinding. plus the girls ive hooked up with have apparently gotten turned on by the fact that their fupas are so huge in comparison that they find it kinky and the slight struggles at the beginning seem to build anticipation like another kind of foreplay i guess lol.

>>44065
>pillows don’t help
Kisame here. You’re thinking too much like a horny chimp when you should be thinking like an horny engineer of the perverse. A lot of boat and mechanist humor ports pretty well. Not rocket science though bruv just pick an angle and dive in.

>>46775
Nah this is an imposter. I might cease to be Kisame starting April

>>46794
Soon you'll be free from schizo posting

...To the topic on hand. Credentials are LTR, larger than average member, so I will try to give helpful ibfo but some of my cautions might not matter to some. Our weights fluxtuated intentionally. Currently the skinny one, she is fat.

If you are fat guy and she is skinny girl, its easy mode since your gut will put pressure on the clit from the outside (her words). If you're both fat, I guess fantasy is more enjoyable than physical stimulation, since you don't get the benefits of fat guy / thin girl, or thin guy / fat girl. (was not physically stimulating)

If you're skinny and she is fat, you have more flexibility in how you give her pleasure, but its all about your technical ability such as:
If she big, and you want to go deep, lay her on her back with legs to her side and you will penetrate deeper. Go slow, you can bruise her cervix like this. You can do this if she is thin, but if she's fat, her own weight is adding pressure to her clit like this. When I was fat, I would rest my gut on her hip, but she gets more out of this from her own fat.

If she's on top, you can lift your knees up to push her ass down and press her clit against your dick, this is amplified for her if she lazyily lays on you, but its going to be hard for you to breath. Its more work with me being smaller, I can barely move her around, it was easier for her to take pleasure from this position before without hurting me, but its kinda hot how she has to crush me now.

Doggy is...awkward if you aren't significantly taller than her. Kneeling on a pillow makes it weird. She has to spread her legs far so I can't say much about how to do well in this position, she liked it when I was the bigger one, but I haven't been able to figure out what does or doesn't make it work because shes an inch taller and I'm short.

Oral is pretty much same if she's skinny or fat, but I caution you that thighs that can carry a 300lb woman without her getting exhausted could pop your skull if she clenches...so maybe pick positions carefully, legs bent from the back is safer.

Those are our gotos. Hope that helps you guys.

>>46843 I somehow deleted the most important paragraph from my post.

Basically if you put a pillow under her, it may help, but if shes short having her on top removes the height issue. Alternatively laying her on her side will help if her hips are fat enough to prop her up or having her doggy style. Standing off the bed plus one of the other options is what I hear others do, but I can't speak to it since I'm too short to try this.