My opinion of the female sex is not good.
However I am a pure heterosexual.
Have these two things correlated and given me a feeder fetish so that I can turn women into unsightly, unhealthy, wheezing sacks of meat?

>>43563 (OP)
There's no dilemma. You, and any woman you meet, are both adults with your own agency. No one has the right to make another do something. If you both agree to do something, it's through interaction and negotiation.
There are couples every day who are either delighted or disappointed with those results.