SO has been low-key complaining for a month how much weight she gained over the holidays, yet she's still eating like she's going to the electric chair. I'm the cook and she told me "NO MORE RICE!" (which blows her up like crazy), and when I jokingly suggested spagetti bolognese she said yes! I didn't argue. Then two nights later she wanted to go out for Indian food and ate an entire bowls of the stuff and half of mine too — AND an entire order of naan.
Her sweet tooth is out of control too. She's always had one but we had a ton of leftover Halloween candy this year and she ate all of it within a few days. I'm talking pounds of the stuff, chocolate, taffy and hard candy. I managed to steal maybe 5 pieces.
Then last night at 11pm I was glued to the couch and she was doing some work (night owl). She forbids sweet stuff in the house — because she'll eat it — and suddenly announced "I need dessert" and started putting her shoes on. Bad feeder that I am, I told her I'm not going out so she said FU and drove to the store for cookies.
VD is coming up and I always buy her chocolate, natch. I've never seen a box last 24 hours, I'm thinking of testing her by splurging on an extra-huge one.
Haven't seen her in jeans or pants since November, I think. All leggings, all the time lol.
So much to grab and she's not even that big, at least by bbwchan standards (5'3", 180ish?), and the extra jiggle is really obvious. I hope this never stops though she's now complaining about back pain...
>>43816>In college told my girl I enjoyed her curves and would love her to get curvier. I like that this thread proves encouraging WG doesn't have to be secretive and/or manipulative. While it's not a sure thing, letting her know your preferences in a loving, respectful way is one of them. Women are people pleasers by both nature and nurture and particularly when it comes to a man they feel safe with.
Let's face it: Women are afraid of getting fat because it brings on rejection. Let them know you'll love them that way and the fact that 1) fattening food tastes good, and 2) weight loss exercise regimens are hard and the combination just might overcome any vanity issues.
She'd probably never cop to it directly, but my SO has definitely "let herself go" since we've been together, to the tune of 30 pounds or so. Ok, not spectacular DA wg fic numbers, but this is real life and 30lbs on a short woman is a lot. I don't think she would have thickened up like this if I hadn't made my feelings known.