>>40850I dont think the humiliation thing is where it starts. If a guy likes big tits then calling attention to how big they are is a turn on. If a guy has a fat fetish then calling attention to it is also a turn on, but its considered a bad thing by society which makes it humiliation. We wouldn't seek out girls who are genuine feedees if they were getting off on making them feel bad.
There could be a distinction between guys who like women who happen to be fat (those into the more traditional hourglass shape) that enjoy the humiliation part more, and those who like fat that happens to be on women, who seem to go more for bellies/blobs.
Having said all that, fetishes are really hard to pigeon hole so I'm probably way off.