>>41334That's sad to read, buddy. My prayers are with you.
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>what do I do?I suggest the following New Year's resolutions:
- Become a man (as in, imagine yourself as a responsible adult who can and should do good for others).
- Contact your friends and family if it's viable, tell them about your resolution and ask them to help you, guide you and set you straight if they suspect you to stray from your ways. Don't be afraid to ask for help and use the resources you have. There are people who love you.
- If you think your friends and family wouldn't be helpful, it might be better to keep some distance for some time until you've come to terms with yourself and built up the strength to resist temptation.
- If you have nobody, find new resources. Talk to a Catholic priest. As cheesy as it may sound, they are great resources. They've taken a vow to serve, and they will either help you or find someone to help you.
- Clean up your damn room (I know, lol, but that's actually a great thing to do). If you don't have a room, clean up your car and, most importantly, your own appearance. Repeat daily at the same time. Keep yourself and your surroundings nice: You're worth it, and the others are, as well.
- Build up good habits. Begin by going for a walk in a nice place without your phone. Do that at the same time everyday or, if that's not feasible for you, take a long walk every Sunday. Make it a thing you look forward to.
- Look around you: There is always something good you can do to help yourself or others. Begin with the little things.
- Go out of doors everyday first thing in the morning. Once you're up and out, you might as well do something productive.
- Structure your day. Go to bed, rise, eat at the same time everyday. If it helps you, write yourself a timetable and stick to it.
- Get yourself an apprenticeship. Be there everyday, stay focussed, look forward to the outcome: You will have a skill that'll feed you and provide something good in the world.
- Come to terms with God. Pray for your success in life and for help in your struggles. Pray for other people, too.
- Write your resolutions down and take yourself time to evaluate your actions everyday before going to bed: Look at every point and think about a way to fulfill it more perfectly the next day. Don't be sad if you haven't lived up to your expectations, but tell yourself to be back on track tomorrow.
I had similar struggles and these are the things that helped me to overcome them. With God's help I got my life back together. It took some time and many failures, but I never gave up and in the end, I made it.
I pray that you may make it, too, bro. You're never alone.