>>35441This is a fair point, absent the bigotry. I identify as a heterosexual male. But the fat fetish is my overwhelming sexual preference. The physical and social challenges of being obese, specifically.
A fat woman will draw my eye. But if she's working at a gym, despite being a couple hundred pounds overweight, it's way better. If she happens to be a he, the scenario is still workable. Hotter if it's me though. That's where men can fit into my fantasy. A projection of what I could be. How I could experience obesity.
To the external observer though, it looks pretty fucking gay. Getting too fat to see or even reach one's genitals is a turn on. That means superchub and small dick videos are on the table. In the latter case - it's a combination of fat engulfing the shaft and added estrogen diminishing the erection. Too fat fuck is a great fantasy, if not practical in reality. Best though if it's a woman causing it through sexual coercion, a bit of forced gaining.
Ultimately, it's a fetish. Escalated by decades of porn. Given the vast majority of willing feedists are men, I can't say I'd never go there. At the highest weights, body types tend to converge anyways. A willing feedee who's up for a couple hundred pounds of gain? Maybe I can overlook the dick.
Would I get with a dude to gain myself? If I was 20 again, and he was taking care of everything? It'd be a very tempting trajectory. Better if it was a woman, but the fat is the primary sexual object. There's plenty of opportunity for body contrast, public struggle, etc. Maybe taking it up the ass once in awhile would be a tolerable trade off.
Married though, so it hasn't come up. I did alright pulling a woman who can indulge my kinks. And I think if I had to do it again now, I could pull one of the rare female feedists. I've got woke politics, money and have given out a couple thousand orgasms over the decades. I could probably get it together.
