>>35886I don't doubt there are women who are open towards their sexual desires and what types of men they find attractive. I don't doubt that they can have dirty, depraved fantasies. I don't doubt there's all kinds of dirty minded women out there.
I was stating how in western culture men are expected to go on and on about their sex fantasies. We will go about how a woman is hot, how she has big luscious boobs, hot butt and legs and our fantasies involving her. Yet we don't afford that to women or are open towards female sex fantasies. Spaces like this are usually started by men venting about their sex fantasies, most of the stuff on this board is men going on about women. While we do have boards for plump men with presumably gay men/straight women talking about their love of plump men, most of the discussions on this board are about men talking about women. I was saying that women most of the time aren't expected to go on about their erotic fantasies as men.
I do agree that even if a guy is a woman's "type", he still needs to be a better person, there are women who want more than just a fling, and if a guy wants a real relationship, he shouldn't just think that the only way to a woman's heart is to gain a 6 pack. He needs to be a better person.
You are right about the double standard for fat men and thin women. It's super common and we don't call a woman a fetishist when she is with a fat man. But when a thin man is with a fat woman, then he's a fetishist. I do wonder if for the work of various FAs, they want to reverse this double standard and have works where men are with fat women, fat women finding love with other fat women or fat women with fat men.
