>>34390My experience was I dated someone who started out in 2018 as a part time cam girl. By 2020 they were on OF and completely within that twitter-OF world. It warped them.
Something happens to a human when they can "cycle" through others who displease them. They stop behaving like a rational person, because they will always be enabled by others. The worst part with sex work over say a comic creator is that there is always going to be a subset of people who get off to someone becoming more narcissistic and out of touch with reality.
The primary driver in getting through to mentally ill people is appealing to their self interest. Reminding them they have people who love them, who are valuable, who they will lose if they do not seek treatment. But when you see everyone as replaceable, it's impossible for this to work because even if theyre wrong and will regret it years later, they see everyone around them as barriers to their 'true self expression" and that "better people will come along." Generally this thinking would lead someone to be alone and isolated, but unfortunately there can be no rock bottom because there will always be someone with an actual simp fetish who gets off on being actually abused by mentally ill people.
My advice for anyone disheartened by this is to remember the mind is the most important organ. Whether its sex, creativity, or athleticism, the mind is the linchpin and when the mind is not stable or strong, everything else will suffer in time. We all want to feel valuable, but sometimes it's a blessing that we are not given endless love and care from an infinite arrangement of people.
If Britt wasnt a sex worker shed either be living under a bridge or she'd be in treatment. Most would say she's better off as she is than under a bridge, and who knows maybe theyre right. Personally I think the critical thing is to reach rock bottom. It will take longer for someone like her to reach that place but she inevitably will, I hope. The alternative is she remains an absolutely unapproachable abusive kook for the rest of her life. I have hope because tbh I think the idea of 20-40 more years of her lifestyle would simply get boring and a change would need to come eventually. Feel somewhat bad for her because the delusions of grander lasting as long as they have seem less like narcissism or bipolar and more like a genuine psychosis brought on by whatever she had happen in her life + as mentioned before, the enablers online. If you were kinda insane, it would make sense youd think you were a divine manifestation of God when you have so many people praise and worship you. I cant watch her content anymore because it makes me sad. Being around people who have lost touch with reality is stressful and scary so either no one cares abt her IRL or shes worrying/hurting the ones who do care and either way, just sad!