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Preface: been married for just about 10 years. My wife has always been on the thick side, around 170lbs, though she’s also taller, about 5’7. She’s gone up and down a bit over the years naturally to about 190. She got up to around 230 at her heaviest after she had each of our three kids. She successfully lost the weight every time. We had a talk after kid number two about her not losing the weight (she knows about my preference/fetish), but she was adamant she wanted to shrink back down and so I fully supported her. She’s very good at doing Weight Watchers.
Last year, she reached ~165 and was very proud of herself. Bought new clothes, etc. but since then the weight has sloooowly been creeping back. She mentioned as much a few weeks ago and decided to enjoy the summer and diet again in the fall. She’s probably in the upper 170’s again. During the discussion, I joked if there was another option where she doesn’t and she sort of blew it off, but asked me later why I’d want her to do something that would intentionally shorten her life. Didn’t have a good answer for her at the time. She mentioned again yesterday that she needed to lay off the ice cream because her shorts were feeling very tight.
I’ve always been supportive of what she wants because ultimately I love her very much (and even at 170 she's, to my mind, incredibly hot). But those extra 50 pounds post-birth were the greatest tease, and the fetish part of my brain is desperate to see her back there.
She’s always struggled with her weight. She has a big appetite but eats very healthy. I’ve been very good at keeping bad snacks out of the house (within reason). She hates the idea of gaining weight and has some deep-seated mental issues about it.
I don’t need or want to convince her to deliberately gain weight. I just want to be able to offer a hopefully compelling argument to her about not dieting again if it comes up and just letting nature take it course. Has anyone been here and succeeded?
Preface: been married for just about 10 years. My wife has always been on the thick side, around 170lbs, though she’s also taller, about 5’7. She’s gone up and down a bit over the years naturally to about 190. She got up to around 230 at her heaviest after she had each of our three kids. She successfully lost the weight every time. We had a talk after kid number two about her not losing the weight (she knows about my preference/fetish), but she was adamant she wanted to shrink back down and so I fully supported her. She’s very good at doing Weight Watchers.
Last year, she reached ~165 and was very proud of herself. Bought new clothes, etc. but since then the weight has sloooowly been creeping back. She mentioned as much a few weeks ago and decided to enjoy the summer and diet again in the fall. She’s probably in the upper 170’s again. During the discussion, I joked if there was another option where she doesn’t and she sort of blew it off, but asked me later why I’d want her to do something that would intentionally shorten her life. Didn’t have a good answer for her at the time. She mentioned again yesterday that she needed to lay off the ice cream because her shorts were feeling very tight.
I’ve always been supportive of what she wants because ultimately I love her very much (and even at 170 she's, to my mind, incredibly hot). But those extra 50 pounds post-birth were the greatest tease, and the fetish part of my brain is desperate to see her back there.
She’s always struggled with her weight. She has a big appetite but eats very healthy. I’ve been very good at keeping bad snacks out of the house (within reason). She hates the idea of gaining weight and has some deep-seated mental issues about it.
I don’t need or want to convince her to deliberately gain weight. I just want to be able to offer a hopefully compelling argument to her about not dieting again if it comes up and just letting nature take it course. Has anyone been here and succeeded?