>>27258>but personally I wouldn’t settle down with someone who can't keep up with the kids and you can go on adventures with.I'm the guy with the 350lb wife, no, she doesn't go hiking with us, but that's when you have time with just dad, and that's when mom gets a break to do something else. That's how real grownup relationships work, you divide and conquer the task of child rearing sometimes, dad takes the kids to a park so mom can grocery shop, take a break from being a SAHM, etc. Not to mention up until maybe 40 years ago women didn't "go on adventures" with their husbands and children either(and they were skinny as fuck, whacked out on "diet pills"), they stayed home and did domestic stuff.
Ideally, dad does the crazy, wild energy outside play time stuff and mom does the quieter indoors activities, that's how we do it anyway. You sound young, so do yourself a favor and observe a busy playground sometime, you'll see lots of skinny women ignoring their kids in favor of their phone and usually it's the dads chasing after kids, doing the energetic stuff no matter what the mothers weight is. Despite being fat, my wife is a fantastic mother, no, she doesn't play tag with them, but honestly, that's my job anyway, and she does other things like taking them for walks, swimming, etc. I'm sure there's shitty fat moms but there's rail thin shitty moms who ignore their kids all day and park them in front of the boob tube. If you find a deeply caring fat woman who really wants to be a good mother then she will be a good mother, and the kids will turn out well, provided of course that you are doing your job as a dad and not being a lazy sports fan, or terminal gamer. Best of luck with everything Ausanon.