>>19590 (OP)This idea that if you were 1k pounds and immobile that the person making you fat and care taking for you is the dominant one and the submissive person is the immobile one.
I understand fully that the dynamic people are going for is
>Oh daddy you want me to eat more for you? but im so fuuuuull, but you're the boss so I'll obey. but in every other circumstance the care taker is basically a servant. Get their food, do their chores, clean them, provide for them in every way they are physically unable to basically. a servant is not dominant. at best a relationship like that is a switch one where partners trade off who is dom and sub.
Why not just lean into it and be like a jabba the hutt archetype where you are that big because of the influence you have over your subs?