Anonymous
Sat 25 Jun 2022 02:03:02
85a990
CA
No.17036
initial disclaimer against forcing someone into engaging in a kink that they are completely against without cobsent
ok, so I think one thing that can work, especially if she's already "interested", is to start telling her that little things she happens to do which relate to your kink are cute. Specifically, I think "cute" is a very underrated word to use when talking with women. Don't say something is "hot" or "sexy" or "amazing" when you're trying to come across as casual and lowkey about having a fetish.
So when she eats too much, or you see her eat something particularly fattening, or she outgrows some article of clothing, whatever small thing it mighht be, tell her how cute it is. How the thing that just happened is the cutest, most adorable thing ever, and how it makes you even more in love with her. For example, I have a very strong burping kink, so after I told my gf early on about that, I would tell her how cute she was every single time she burped, or even congratulate her on them. Over time, she's become burpier and holds nothing back, and she doesn't necessarily let them rip with no excuses to turn me on. Her behaviour altered over time, to the point where she's told me a few times that she caught herself letting out huge burps when she was around other people without immediately realizing it, because she had become so accustomed to her behaviour when it was just me and her.
Your girl may be interested in the sense of being someone willing to engage in any kink of their partner, or might only be interested in the sense of it not being enough of a turnoff to let you down. But I think reinforcing certain behaviours by saying that they're cute, lovable, adorable, etc., in addition to strong sexual reinforcments (better sex when your kink is engaged, that sort of thing), works wonders for instilling new sexual interests and even fetishes in women, rather than them just playacting for your boner.
Because we all know the woman who's a mindless piggy in real life is so much hotter than the one who just plays one in the bedroom.