>>16644>Even though fat is typically a low-class (as in social class, not making a value judgment here) fetish, statistically there must be some of you.It's not that the fetish itself is low class, although making "flaunting a weird fetish" a big part of your identity definitely is. It's just that women of an affluent/educated social class are a lot less likely to be fat. For women, the social and professional opportunity costs of letting yourself get fat are a lot higher in a major metro than they'd be in Middle America where even the rich are carrying around some extra chub. Is that what you meant here?
I'm a New Yorker with an Ivy degree, although I wasted my intellect on art world hipster crap and went into humanities academia as a career (this was a terrible decision and I urge everyone not do this), so my income and lifestyle are precariously middle class by NYC standards.
I'm out as an FA, although I don't make a big deal about it (see above re: making your fetishes your identity) and have introduced plenty of fat GFs to friends/family. My sexuality is too deep a part of my identity to try and hide it, and it would be wrong (to both the thin and the fat women) to date skinny girls while sleeping with fatties on the down low. That's scummy behavior and it poisons the well for guys like me who are actually trying to date, although as a matter of clear-eyed realism I understand that it's going to happen anyway in industries like yours. But the hard part is finding someone who could actually hold my interest outside the bedroom, and hold a conversation in my social group without coming across as cringy/tryhard. Back when I was single on dating sites, looking for a fat girl in metro NYC meant dating blue collar girls from Jersey and the island, no offense intended but that's not my demographic and I need something in common outside the bedroom to keep a relationship going.
When I met a woman who I clicked with in this way I wifed her up ASAP, probably too quickly although that's for reasons unrelated to her fat.
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