>>14448In their defense, your original post very easily could be interpreted as the usual ramblings from some of the shitty guys that have been on there over the years, that said, I'm fairly certain I know who green is, and if my presumption is correct, she's kind of a bitch to anyone that doesn't fall lockstep to her. Really wish I didn't find her weirdly physically attractive... Anyway, If your intent wasn't to offend anyone, the best move would be to not play. Any engagement with the community whatsoever can, and likely will, be taken negatively, unless your posts are basically Feabie hivemind-tier, as seen in
>>14230 or
>>14331, even if the latter in particular is relatively innocuous.
I ran into a somewhat similar situation months ago, where I just sent a general greeting message to a girl, and she almost immediately just dropped an OF link or something similar. No indication of selling content or anything on her profile, otherwise I wouldn't have reached out, because I'm not there for that sort of thing. In general, if they have "Give me money/gifts" links in their profile, don't even bother talking to them if you're looking for genuine interaction.
>about a SELF-APPOINTED DATING SITEUnfortunately, a lot of the terminally-online Feabians kinda forget that it's a BBW dating site as much as it's a fetish site, and go after people who treat it like the former. That said, mainstream dating sites are probably better at this point for sure. I could count the number of potential relationship-tier women I've met on there on one hand.