>>11654But given all that you have said, assuming that it's true, why is it that white BBWs are mostly looking for black men?
As a black man, I've seen examples of everything you have said (as well as examples of where you are dead wrong, but that's not the point I want to make). And yet, white BBWs are drawn to us. Maybe not for relationships or financial support. But they are still drawn to us. I have personally had a number of right-wing, flag lapel wearing, fat assed white BBWs and SSBBWs actually seek me out. And yes I fucked them.
Is it the sense of danger? Is it the big dick energy? Is it "jungle fever?" Who knows! You will have to ask them. But whatever it is, it's enough to overcome every reason that you brought up.
So whatever detriments (you think) black men have in this community, the white BBWs clearly do not share them, even among those who you would think might agree with you. I know from personal experience.