Hey guys I was wondering if you prefer a fat girl or obese girl and tell me why?

I have been with both and currently seeing someone who is ~330 lbs. I much prefer obese women to fat/chubby women. I am a small guy (130 lbs and 5'10") and the size comparison is a huge turn on. Her arms are as big as my thighs. I love taking them out on nice dates we both dress up for. The best is when I am completely enveloped in their fat when they ride me, unfortunately they can't do it for very long but the feeling is indescribably good.

Obese. The bigger a woman is, the hotter.

All I've ever wanted was to find someone to fatten to immobility since I saw Gina Gershwin and her feeder Mark in the Fat Girls and Feeders documentary. He was able to get her up to 750 lbs

The perfect middle ground between form and function, for me, is roughly in the 250-280 area, give or take some weight depending on height/portions. Enough fat for great physical chemistry, but not too much so to significantly hinder what activities they can participate in.

Hookup wise - A chubby/fat chick
Dating wise - A thin/healthy weight chick. I'd never date an overweight or obese woman lol

For me, I'm most attracted to women between 250 and 300 pounds as a rule, with 200-350 being the outer range. This range is like a bell curve and there are exceptions outside of it.

250-300 is quite large for a woman, expecially if she's short or average height, but not so large where she can't take care of herself or be at least somewhat healthy. Any thinner than 200 and I start to lose physical attraction, and any bigger than 350 will cause serious quality of life issues.

Like I said I've been attracted to women outside of this range, but of the smaller women it was more due to personality than physical chemistry. There are parger women I also find attractive physically, but I don't think I could keep up a happy relationship with a women this large due to health and quality of life issues. Women this large fall mostly into the porn and fantasy camp.

There's more to it than just how big a girl is. Being otherwise romantically compatible, having a pretty face, being a decent person and having good chemistry are also important. There are plenty of women who are in my ideal weight range that are just plain unattractive and women above or below it that are very attractive.

IF SHE AINT 680 SHE AINT MY LADY

I like both but if this were a perfect world, I´d like the most obese girl possible. I just want to be smothered by an obese girl tbqh

Similar to >>11172, it's best to separate my preferences in dating away from my sexual desires.

When it comes to dating for a partner long-term, I prefer a fat girl, to some degree because my ex had a decent fat girl shape hovering around 250-300 pounds with DD boobs, some nice belly, and an ass that'll be okay for fucking to say the least. Though I could make a pass if a girl is hovering around 400 and still able to go about life as usual. I'll get into detail later on.

Now if it's all about fucking, I'll go for it with a woman of 450+ just to give it a try. I've already went deep into a pussy of a girl who's just fat and another who's surely BBW status. The latter? She's the one that's 400-ish and fit the expanded criteria I was alluding to earlier. Curiosity gets the best of me in this department just wanting to see how I can handle such women. Honestly, I'll either be happy enough that she's undressed and sharing foreplay with me if I can't penetrate or really bummed out when I realize there's no way I'm reaching her vag and that it's all useless if I can do everything I want besides getting inside her. There's just no way I'd be able to handle a relationship with ladies that heavy in the long run.

The biggest girl I've been with was well over 500 pounds. The feeling of pliable soft flesh combined with overwhelming size and weight was amazing.

im not about obese

Someone said it somewhere else on this site, but honestly, a "fat" person is always fatter in person than they appear in pictures. This is also true of an obese person, of course. However, my point is, you don't always need a huge obese person to get what you're looking for - that has it's drawbacks in health and hygiene. Just a fat person is often more than enough. I'd say 300 is usually an upper end for me for this reason

Anything above 250 lbs is too much for me when taking height into account. I prefer healthy to chubby weight woman, especially those with a good waist to hip ratio. Fridge shaped women are just disgusting to me.

Obese for sure
I honestly couldn't be with a girl much below 300 lbs

My gf is somewhere between 420 and 440 at 5'8" now and that's just perfect

If she lost weight I'd stay with her of course, but you get the point..
I like girls that are ssbbw category ;)

Someone who is 200 to 300 lbs. 250 to 270 being still mad attractive. If she workout and goes to the gym, enough to form that ass and thighs, then that works too. Even someone less than 199 lbs is attractive too, until maybe 170 lbs.

I find I am more into the muscle-fat women.

I have dated 300 lbs and up, but I realized it wasn't realistic for me.