Hello.

I've been addicted to this stuff for years. I can't believe I've become so attached to something that so deeply disgusts me. I've always been attracted to larger women, but that's besides the point. The issue with feedism is its inherently unhealthy, and in its more extreme versions destructive.

If this resonates with you whatsoever, then you know this is all wrong. Yet its much harder to quit this shit than normal porn. There's the unique factor of (weight gain) making content progressively getting more tempting as time goes on.

We need a community where we can all help eachother quit, become better people, and put this fetish behind us.

If you so desire, you can come join the ex-feedee subreddit:

https://www.reddit.com/r/exfeedism/

If you all could continue to share exit strategies and ways out of here, encouraging words, and such in this thread it would be appreciated.

Also, to be clear, I don't mean to tell those who are into this and don't want to quit that they have to. Or that they're evil. If you want to stay here, stay here. I just hope you're taking care of yourself.

But if somewhere deep down you are uneasy with your own attraction to feedism, then please help us all get out of this place together. For those that are like me, we know this fetish is a type of prison. And the only option is to break out completely.

There's already a thread for this

Shut the fuck up bitch.

>>10795 (OP)
I fucking HATE nu-Catholics man lol

Just turn off your computer.

>>10810 I know, right? At first I sort-of pitied them because it must be genuinely so exhausting letting your primary motivators in life be guilt and fear, rather than any other more positive emotions.

But it's not enough to be miserable on their own, they have to make it a dick-measuring contest. They have to be self-righteous in being THE MOST miserable, and they have to lord it over others how miserable they are and how being miserable makes them a better person.
It's pathetic.

>>10795 (OP)

Hello.

Seems like you're still coming to terms with your sexuality. You're in the phase where you think that your attractions are something you can dismiss, and aren't hard wired into your phyche. That's fine. We're all on this roller coaster called life together.

I can see that you clearly look down on yourself for your hardwired attraction to women gaining weight, and are trying to come to terms with that by blaming pornography, and projecting your own self loathing onto this community. It's a common defense mechanism: blaming others for what you percieve as a flaw in yourself.

Those of us who have been around for a bit have experienced self loathing. That's not a new feeling, especially for those of us raised christian in the US. What defines us is how we respond to it.

Guess what: you can't bargain this away. It's a life sentence. You can deny yourself sexual gratification all you want, but you'll always be looking at those 3 foot wide milf asses bobbing down the supermarket aisles with longing. And as you continue on your path of denial, you'll come to be a very miserable person, who hates all fat women and the men who accept themselves, and you'll think that it's your crusade to squash any self acceptance out. You're already on your way there with this subreddit.

Because if you can't allow yourself happiness then nobody else can have it either.

The longer you go down that path, the harder it is to leave. The "supporting friends" you make along the way will have the same insecurities as you, and you'll be an outcast if you ever back down, because your whole friendship will be based on shared misery.

And for what? So you get a ticket into heaven? I've been down this path. If there's a God, His main focus isn't whether or not you bang fat chicks. The Bible is pretty clear about every person being imperfect, and the hatred you'll be harboring in your heart is far worse than just taking an overweight girlfriend and asking for forgiveness for being imperfect. I assume you'll never feel resentment or covet your neighbor's belongings either?

So you can either accept your lot in life and seek out consenting fat partners... or become a bitter crusader with constantly repressed sexual urges for something that is like 3/10 weird on the sexual preference scale. Your choice.

Sex workers don't want us to break free from our addiction.

I don't experience self-loathing or guilt, I just don't like how it affects my relationships, and I spend way too much money on this fetish

OP, you’re a complete fag and the only way out of this is a bullet through the roof of your mouth.

Never let the party die.

OP you're going to shoot up a buffet like that one kid did with the Asian massage parlors

Learn to cope with your sexuality.

>>10823

>They have to be self-righteous in being THE MOST miserable, and they have to lord it over others how miserable they are and how being miserable makes them a better person.

This is the heart of it right here. I'm an ex-trad and had to learn the hard way (bad marriage) just how psychologically unhealthy this mentality is.

See you next week brocel