>>172609it's probably because gainer chicks come in two flavors:
bpd and not bpd
bpd and cutting combo is very common, they're also likely to do the craziest stuff to avoid getting abandoned, so gaining weight not out of the question.
non bpd ones probably have the kind from the getgo and are more normal.
I recommend avoiding chicks with cutting scars, or at least checking if they don't have bpd.
warning sign of bpd:
-cannot get on well with more than one person
-black and white thinking. Either you're a hero or a monster
-impulse control issues, self harm, addictions etc
-mood cycles like crazy, one day happy another day very sad etc
They will drain your sanity if you have any.
If you're insane they're some of the best sex ever but might boil your bunny or kill you.
You have been warned.
