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Has anyone noticed how fat women exclusively only date gymbros or really skinny guys?
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because like you they're human beings and allowed to have their own preferences?
From what I've heard it goes the other way as well. Fat men refuse to date fat women and in some cases, actively hate fat women despite being fat themselves.
Because women are hypocritical, but also fat is feminine which most of the time doesn't look good on them(unless that's your thing). Men should be muscly and strong not dainty and fat, leave that for women. If you think about it getting fat is like bodybuilding for women.
>>90406 (OP)
Why do fat women hate fat men? Because fat men have the worst personalities. Insecure, weak, whiny, lazy, entitled, usually poor. Aka losers.
Why do fat women hate fat men? Because fat men have the worst personalities. Insecure, weak, whiny, lazy, entitled, usually poor. Aka losers.
>>90426
Not really fat guys have to cope up for their looks department so they have usually good "funny" personalities most of the time. Whereas fat women are extremely entitled now that they have started to get a modicum of attention.
Not really fat guys have to cope up for their looks department so they have usually good "funny" personalities most of the time. Whereas fat women are extremely entitled now that they have started to get a modicum of attention.
Can buy it as internalized fatphobia to show they don't have to "settle" for fellow fatties or defy societies ideas that the only people they can date is fellow fat people. Some fat women may prefer to get it on with skinny dudes or hunks and to show that their only dating pool isn't only limited to fellow fat people. But this isn't universal, I'm sure there's fat women who fantasize about being with fat men and vice versa.
Cousin did mention times of fat men having this internalized fatphobia. Where some really fat dudes mocked small fat women. Like meaty hourglass level fat, and saying they're super obese and undatable when they're way fatter than the women they bully. If they internalize the double standard that fat men can exist, but women being fat is a horrible sin. That women can't put on weight or be fat, and we must treat fat women being nude/sexual as gross and disgusting. As well as good ol' hypocrisy. Like the scene in family guy when Lois gains weight and she says peter is fatter than she is, and he responds "Lois, fat men aren't fat, fat women are fat".
Cousin did mention times of fat men having this internalized fatphobia. Where some really fat dudes mocked small fat women. Like meaty hourglass level fat, and saying they're super obese and undatable when they're way fatter than the women they bully. If they internalize the double standard that fat men can exist, but women being fat is a horrible sin. That women can't put on weight or be fat, and we must treat fat women being nude/sexual as gross and disgusting. As well as good ol' hypocrisy. Like the scene in family guy when Lois gains weight and she says peter is fatter than she is, and he responds "Lois, fat men aren't fat, fat women are fat".
Being fat is a feminine trait, so its understandable that heterosexual women, regardless of their own weight would not find it attractive. The more estrogen your body has, the more of your body mass will be fat, and vice versa with testosterone. They don't like fat men for the same reason that you most likely don't like incredibly ripped or muscular women. It signals a hormonal imbalance and poor health. Most fat guys I see that have an easy time getting women are usually fat but with a good deal of muscle underneath. But if you're just some big blob tub of lard with a beer gut, yeah you're fucked.
>>90435
>I'm sure there's fat women who fantasize about being with fat men and vice versa.
Probably a very small minority, but speaking from experience there's no one that hates fat men more than fat women. Even skinny women are more accepting of fat men.
>I'm sure there's fat women who fantasize about being with fat men and vice versa.
Probably a very small minority, but speaking from experience there's no one that hates fat men more than fat women. Even skinny women are more accepting of fat men.
>>90439
>there's no one that hates fat men more than fat women
I doubt that. If you were to look at it statistically I'm sure obese women are probably more likely to be in a relationship with an obese man than a skinny woman. But the truth is that most women find fat men unattractive, regardless of their own weight. Even women with fat partners would probably find them more attractive if they weren't fat.
>there's no one that hates fat men more than fat women
I doubt that. If you were to look at it statistically I'm sure obese women are probably more likely to be in a relationship with an obese man than a skinny woman. But the truth is that most women find fat men unattractive, regardless of their own weight. Even women with fat partners would probably find them more attractive if they weren't fat.
>>90426
This, and fat men fail as providers thus setting off every alarm bell women have. This thread pops up once every 8 months and it's the same sad faggot posting it every time
This, and fat men fail as providers thus setting off every alarm bell women have. This thread pops up once every 8 months and it's the same sad faggot posting it every time
The 80:20 rule is now fully in effect for BBWs too
Why do fat men wear shirts that say "No Fat Chicks?"
>>90444
Even if a fat guy was a provider and didn't have any of those negative personality traits, women would still not like him. I don't understand why it's so hard for guys to admit that women simply aren't physically attracted to fat men.
Even if a fat guy was a provider and didn't have any of those negative personality traits, women would still not like him. I don't understand why it's so hard for guys to admit that women simply aren't physically attracted to fat men.
Fat men hate fat women and that’s why fat women want nothing to do with fat men. It’s that simple.
The real problem for me isn't people being attracted to what they're attracted to, even if you're fat you're still likely going to be attracted to what is the "norm". My issue is when fat chicks hate guys who have an actual fat fetish, like I don't get it you'd rather want to be (and fail to be) with a guy who likes regular chicks and is repulsed by your body? Always has baffled me, and don't push the whole "its objectifying them", lol no the first basis for attraction is looks, if you're not attracted to what you're looking it its not going to really go far relationship wise (or at least not heathily).
Some of it could be the fear that the only reason they can get laid is if they're a man's fetish object, that men only date them to fetishize their bodies and they can't have anything beyond a sexual relation or are a man's sex object. That they can't find men who love them beyond their bodies. It can be self-loathing if they hate their bodies and dislike being desired if they feel that the parts of their bodies they hate are desired and feel they don't desire love. As well as discomfort towards parts of their body that they dislike being seen as sexy. Some can dislike us and view us as perverts saying gross stuff. But there are fat women who don't mind us, as long as we don't say or do something truly gross. But there are fat women who dislike us for reasons I gave and many more.
>>90450
>>don't understand why it's so hard for guys to admit that women simply aren't physically attracted to fat men
Because fat men are mentally weak, and can't face reality. If they were mentally strong they wouldn't be fat
>>don't understand why it's so hard for guys to admit that women simply aren't physically attracted to fat men
Because fat men are mentally weak, and can't face reality. If they were mentally strong they wouldn't be fat
>>90524
It's the same dude that says this shit in every version of this post. We get it you hate fat men, I'm convinced either your fat or your a faggot. Both most likely but your not inaccurate but you know burly men exist too dude.
It's the same dude that says this shit in every version of this post. We get it you hate fat men, I'm convinced either your fat or your a faggot. Both most likely but your not inaccurate but you know burly men exist too dude.
>>90603
And fat women aren't mentally weak? Can't be throwing stones in glass houses, you have to be mentally ill to get that big regardless if they're men or women.
And fat women aren't mentally weak? Can't be throwing stones in glass houses, you have to be mentally ill to get that big regardless if they're men or women.
>>90606
Having a fetish is considered mentally ill yes since normal behavior doesn't work at the art of expansion
Having a fetish is considered mentally ill yes since normal behavior doesn't work at the art of expansion
>>90606
Of course fat people are mentally weak that's why they give in to their gluttony despite knowing it will cause them a myriad of health problems later in life. But both women and society in general actively despises mental weakness in men without holding women to that same standard.
Of course fat people are mentally weak that's why they give in to their gluttony despite knowing it will cause them a myriad of health problems later in life. But both women and society in general actively despises mental weakness in men without holding women to that same standard.
As a chubby guy myself (6’ & 290ish) I’ve never had any trouble pulling any women (whether it be now or when I was thin) it’s a mindset more than a physical attribute. If you own your size & don’t let it own you (be confident & assertive) you’ll have no trouble approaching most women. The problem is that most fat guys are shy, unconfident & incredibly insecure which is going to repel most encounters 🤷♂️
Exactly not all women are the same, makes me wonder if stuff like this is done by angry trolls who have issues with women. When not all women are the same. there are fat women who fantasize about banging fat men out there, it's hard to say how common it is but they are out there.
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>>90633
>there are fat women who fantasize about banging fat men out there, it's hard to say how common it is but they are out there.
It's hard to say how common it is because it is practically nonexistent. A woman being with a man despite him being fat and a woman liking fat men are two completely different things. The only scenario in which women like "fat men" is when the guy has a dad bod aka an incredibly muscular physique with a slightly higher bodyfat percentage. If you put an actual fat man on any dating app you will get 0 matches. You are delusional.
>there are fat women who fantasize about banging fat men out there, it's hard to say how common it is but they are out there.
It's hard to say how common it is because it is practically nonexistent. A woman being with a man despite him being fat and a woman liking fat men are two completely different things. The only scenario in which women like "fat men" is when the guy has a dad bod aka an incredibly muscular physique with a slightly higher bodyfat percentage. If you put an actual fat man on any dating app you will get 0 matches. You are delusional.
>>90406 (OP)
I see this asked a lot on Tumblr and you'd be surprised how flagrantly selfish a lot of women in the online FA/Feedism community are when it comes to their size. Questions like, "would you be interested in dating fat men?" usually get translated to "would you be interested in mutual gain (or xwg)?"—in which case the answer is almost always an unequivocal "no." This whole 'fatness for me, but not for thee' mindset seems more common in cishet corners too, I think? Which at that point you can argue it adds yet another, painfully shallow layer to those weird sexual dimorphism debates wrt to straight women fetishizing tall men, etc.
I see this asked a lot on Tumblr and you'd be surprised how flagrantly selfish a lot of women in the online FA/Feedism community are when it comes to their size. Questions like, "would you be interested in dating fat men?" usually get translated to "would you be interested in mutual gain (or xwg)?"—in which case the answer is almost always an unequivocal "no." This whole 'fatness for me, but not for thee' mindset seems more common in cishet corners too, I think? Which at that point you can argue it adds yet another, painfully shallow layer to those weird sexual dimorphism debates wrt to straight women fetishizing tall men, etc.
>>90668
>in which case the answer is almost always an unequivocal "no."
And to be fair, veteran models (especially of the SSBBW variety) are acutely aware of the logistics required just to maintain their size, relative good health and personal hygiene. It's often a nightmare for partners who aren't fat themselves; leaving open the possibility for them to develop those very same issues on top of that creates even more paths for tension to build in a relationship that already has its own unique constraints. So on the other hand, I understand why so many reflexively say, "no", but that doesn't mean I can't wish straight FFAs would make themselves more widely known.
>in which case the answer is almost always an unequivocal "no."
And to be fair, veteran models (especially of the SSBBW variety) are acutely aware of the logistics required just to maintain their size, relative good health and personal hygiene. It's often a nightmare for partners who aren't fat themselves; leaving open the possibility for them to develop those very same issues on top of that creates even more paths for tension to build in a relationship that already has its own unique constraints. So on the other hand, I understand why so many reflexively say, "no", but that doesn't mean I can't wish straight FFAs would make themselves more widely known.
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>>90669
>wish straight FFAs would make themselves more widely known.
Sometimes it genuinely feels like pic related.
>wish straight FFAs would make themselves more widely known.
Sometimes it genuinely feels like pic related.
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