>>9102I don't know if everything you're saying solely applies to fat enbies or the fetishisation of them. I agree with everything you're saying but I think that's really why people end up realising that they're non-binary. Usually it's based on a rejection of gender entirely, but also I think that individual enbies gradually come to the conclusion that they fit into neither pre-defined (bullshit) category. Whether they're impossibly fat or not.
Of course, obesity and genderqueerness have a great relationship. A great deal of non-binary people are fat as fuck partially because fatness alerts one to greater injustices in the world and leads one to consider the implications of enforced gender, but I think also because fatness is a gender-altering force. In feedist communities, some enbies grow fat specifically because they wish to have their assigned gender buried beneath rolls, because they want to be unidentifiable contrary to gender conformists. The opposite is also true, I know a couple of enbies with anorexia, who developed the condition because they wished to escape the body they were born in, the one that led the world to mischaracterise them.
Non-binary people are wonderful and I am grateful for their confidence to stand up for themselves and take what they deserve while also trying to deconstruct one of the many hierarchical institutions that holds us back. Jerk off to them more, I'll try and find as much enby art as I can to bring here because if anything good can come from porn, it's tolerance for other people with different bodies. :D
I love fatasses.