>>292877you can die from anything being done wrong, the way you ensure that you will get hurt is by not doing research and understanding your own sexuality as a sin to be avoided until it bubbles up into an unavoidable desire that is done without research and limits.
do your homework, learn what safe words are and actually use them. use them when its a stop, use it for a slow down. have nonverbal indications like snapping fingers or dropping an object out of your hand.
kink like stuffing is really dangerous especially with force because when its with liquid especially you can puke or even drown. hearing the rhythm of your partner so you can pace out breaths while still putting sexual pressure on them to drink to a safe limit makes the kink real but also safe.
someone like aika isn't eating in a way she is aware of she thinks that she is thinner then she actually is so that mindset is a liability for inevitable disordered eating to seriously hurt someone where as someone with the kink can learn what healthy fat is and healthy foods to eat to get fat in that safe way
visceral fat is the kind of hard round fat that you see in "beer bellies" and this is close to critical organs and is the cause of strokes and blood clotting. it can also limit mobility and generally makes surgery of any kind harder and even not elidgeable for if you are too high risk.
subcutaneous fat is the softer kind and this is basically harmless in many ways where you don't get the same blood clotting and smothering of organs, it can still be hard for surgery but not in the same way and also doctors generally over diagnoses people as "just being fat" when they have real conditions that may outright have nothing to do with fatness- not even have being fat as a side effect. that way of being down talked to by doctors makes being fat in this healthier way more of a societal liability then a unhealthy state of being because you can sincerely have good muscles and blood flow. you can eat enough nutrients and have no carcinogens that cause cancer and still be fat in the way that produces soft fat. thats basically healthy. like actually sincerely healthy. being a little pudgy is MORE healthy then being perfectly trim because that kind of fat is a buffer for alot of things especially when you get sick
someone like aika is a liability where she DOESN'T understand consent at the high level tessa clearly dose, she knows how to stop when saiya says stop but she also has no idea what a "slow down" looks like so they can't keep going or learn the right pace for real sex
saiya has never actually had real sex with aika
she has had real sex with tessa and people like you hate her for it, so i ask again:
what has tessa done wrong other then exist as an attractive woman and understand consent?
i think that makes tessa the one moral person in the room when everyone else has REAL problems, ESPECIALLY aika.
